11 Ways To Be A More Attractive Man

Becoming a more attractive man isnโ€™t really that much hard work, but it isnโ€™t that easy either. You need to be committed and dedicated to becoming a better version of yourself if you wish to be a truly attractive man.

You know what Iโ€™m really tired of?
Articles that promise the fastest, easiest, lowest-barrier-to-entry bullshit tips on how men can improve themselves. (Check out most physically attractive zodiac sign female)

Since when are we all after the quick and easy silver bullet? Have we collectively become that lazy as a society that weโ€™re all perpetually salivating over shortcuts?

Well, today Iโ€™m going to deep dive into eleven proven methods that will make you not only more attractive as a man, but that will also make you into the kind of man who can get into and maintain a relationship with an equally high-value partner whenever you desire.

If youโ€™re someone who loves using the word โ€˜triggeredโ€™ or youโ€™re allergic to hard truths, Iโ€™d recommend you stop reading now.

Is It Possible To Become More Attractive?

I was on a coaching call the other week with a man who asked me this very valid question. Before we dive into how to become more attractive, it bears a moment of reflection to ask ourselves if we even believe that altering our attractiveness is even possible.

Generally, if someone has this question on their mind, one of two things is occurring.

1. They have experienced a healthy amount of pain and anguish around having not felt like a sexually viable partner to people who they wanted in the past, or

2. This question is being asked from a place of laziness and fear of stepping into hard work.

If the former is the case, this is totally understandable. If it feels like the game is rigged, thatโ€™s going to be more challenging to want to try to play the game again.

Thereโ€™s a study I often think of in relation to cases like this wherein there was a dog who was presented with three paw-powered levers. One lever produced a small edible treat, the other two levers were neutral and produced no result.

In this instance, the dog would essentially play forever and keep getting treats (which is essentially what a human playing a slot machine is like).

But when one of the two neutral levers was switched so that it became a punishment (a small electric shock), the scientists found that the dog would simply stop playing the game altogether, lie down on the ground, and become despondent.

So thatโ€™s the first point. If youโ€™ve experienced pain in the past when it came to meeting and attracting partners, then itโ€™s going to be difficult to want to engage in self-improvement. I have compassion for this. It isnโ€™t easy stuff. Your ego wants you to maintain the status quo at all costs, and your higher mind is challenging you to step forward and risk getting hurt again. Ultimately, this is difficult but necessary work.

Related: Building Confidence and Becoming Attractive

On to the second point.

Some men ask the โ€˜is it even possible to become more attractive?โ€™ question from a place of laziness. But why? Whatโ€™s the secondary payoff of this?

Similar to the despondent dog analogy, this question is being asked from a place of avoiding pain in life.

The mind knows that if you accept the fact that โ€œIt is possible to increase my desirability as a partner in lifeโ€ then the next step is to take action. And action requires effort. And the effort is hard. Harder than sitting around all day, eating nachos, and playing video games (I mean, hey, unless youโ€™re a pro gamer, in which case fuck yeah, keep up the hustle my dude).

In short, just like any public company can become more valuable and trade for higher stock pricesโ€ฆ and any product on the market can reiterate and improve itselfโ€ฆ and an old beaten up car rusting away in someoneโ€™s backyard can receive a ton of TLC and become functional, street-legal, and even sexyโ€ฆ anyone can improve with enough dedication and will.

So, What Are You Up Against Really?

In a word: Entropy.

You are always battling entropy in life.

Everything in your life, if left unattended, will decay into a state of disorder, chaos, and ruin.

I donโ€™t say this to be dramatic, but to be realistic.

If you donโ€™t feed yourself at all, eventually you will die.

If you donโ€™t exercise your body at all, eventually it will cramp up, retaliate, and turn on you in progressively loud and obvious ways.

If you donโ€™t add any value to the world (via your contributions, your character, your attitude, etc.) and you are constantly leaching energy from those around you, eventually this strategy will make your world small, limited, and miserable.

So you are always battling entropy.

You are battling the part of your mind that wants to do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AT ALL.

And ultimately this laziness is really just a fear of life.

You are afraid to take up spaceโ€ฆ to put in the workโ€ฆ to be your biggest, baddest, boldest self. Because once you define goals, you can fail at them. When you define conditions for success, you can not achieve those and feel like a failure. So better to just sit back and do fuck all with your life, right? Wrong.

This is your life, and it is ending one day at a time.

Are you going to become bitter, or are you going to become better?

As always, the choice is yours alone. Because no one is coming to save you and do the work for you.

Can We Become More Attractive To Everyone?

No. Nor would you want to.

While it is absolutely possible to become more attractive, the point isnโ€™t to become more attractive to the entire marketplace (i.e. the entirety of the gender that youโ€™re looking to be in relationship with) but, more accurately, you want to become more attractive to a specific niche within that market that you resonate with.

To continue with the business analogy, there are very few products on the market that appeal to absolutely everyone. But there are millions of products that are wildly attractive and valuable to a certain subset of the market who are meant to use/consume those products.

For example, an iPhone could be useless to someone who lives off of the grid, doesnโ€™t like using electricity for any reason, and wants to live a life of isolationโ€ฆ but wildly useful to a 28-year-old graphic designer who lives in San Fransisco and runs their own business.

So value is always relative.

Alright, enough pre-amble.

If at this point, you feel resentful of the mirror that I have held up to you, then itโ€™s best you turn back now and go back into your momโ€™s basement.

If youโ€™re ready to do the work and make something more of yourself, then here we go. From the superficial to the deep inner work, weโ€™ll cover the whole spectrum in this beast of a guide.

Here are the eleven highest leverage ways you can become a more attractive man to the type of partner youโ€™re looking to attract.

11 Psychological Hacks For Men To Become More Attractive

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1. Improve your body.

Putting effort into your physical fitness is less about looking jacked and having six pack abs than it is about what it says about your relationship to yourself overall.

If you put energy into how your body functions and operates, then any potential romantic partner that might be sussing you out can accurately trust that you are a man who is willing to take care of himself and attend to his own needs.

When asked what the #1 piece of business advice he would give to young entrepreneurs would be, Sir Richard Branson simply said, โ€œWork out.โ€ Because, to paraphrase his words, if youโ€™re looking to build a world-class business, it is absolutely imperative that you give love and attention to this fancy little meat sack that carries you through life. Without health, nothing else matters. It is on the first rung of Maslowโ€™s hierarchy of needs for a reason.

Personally, over the last year, I have been working out with a personal trainer (for weightlifting) twice per week, a gymnastics coach (primarily to learn how to backflip/do basic tumbling), and I have done at-home workouts (with resistance bands and a kettlebell) also on a weekly basis. The positive changes that I have experienced in my mind, my sleep, and my sex drive are massively apparent.

You donโ€™t need to go to the gym and do resistance training in order to train your body. Trail running, dance classes, yoga, cycling, whatever. Simply pick up any physically active hobby that you love doing, and do it.

Put work into improving your physical fitness, not from a place of getting swole, but from a place of self-honoring and self-love. Your sense of groundedness, mental and emotional health, and sex life will all improve exponentially if you truly make your body a priority.

2. Improve your mind.

What does improving your mind even mean? It means putting in the work to slow down your thinking, and taking responsibility for your thoughts.

You slow down your thoughts (upstream) by removing/minimizing as many of the stressors from your life as possible and then have a mindfulness practice of some sort (which just means you carve out some time to slow the fuck down and be present with whatever youโ€™re doing).

Now on to taking responsibility for your mind.

Someone who is unwilling to take responsibility for their minds (and their lives) is perpetually placing themselves in the role of the victim. And victim consciousness is so rampant in modern society that itโ€™s easy for it to slip through most peopleโ€™s radars undetected.

The man who has jealous thoughts about his partner cheating on him, so he tells her that she has to change her life to cater to his insecurities. Or the woman who views all women as competitive and catty so she avoids having any female friends because guys are just easier to get along with. Or the man who crumbles in the face of the slightest sign of aggression in others because his fatherโ€™s anger used to terrify him as a child.

All three of these examples are of people who are unwilling to face and own a certain part of their own minds (insecurity, competitiveness, and anger respectively) and so they aim to bend the world to their reality instead of doing their work and reclaiming these disowned shadow elements.

So what have you disowned in yourself? What have you made wrong, or scary, or unloveable in your own mind? Acknowledge the disowned shadow element, have a dialogue with it, and then integrate it.

So, for the previous example of the man who is afraid of the anger of others because his father used to be angry, this man would need to first face his own capacity for anger. He would have to acknowledge that, given the right circumstance, he has the exact same capacity for the anger that his father did. And then he would need to enact his anger (in mindful, healing ways) in order to make friends with that part of himself.

Voila! Integration.

Related: How Mindfulness Can Improve Your Overall Mental Health

3. Improve your health.

Good diet, drinking lots of water, prioritizing quality sleep, cultivating and honoring your personal boundaries, and investing in your social circleโ€ฆ the fundamentals are fundamental for a reason.

Do these and thrive. Or ignore them at your peril.

Good diet

Eat food at consistent times. Donโ€™t have your meals be too big. Have at least half of your meal be colorful, varied vegetables.

Weโ€™ll all heard this advice for years, and yet itโ€™s still difficult to consistently prioritize. But as long as youโ€™re making food choices like these ones 80% of the time, youโ€™ll be doing just fine.

For more on this, check out my article The Better Sex Diet: Exactly What I Eat Every Day.

Drinking lots of water.

Drink 2-4 liters of water per day. Find this tip hard to implement? Buy a BPA free water bottle that you like, and fill it up every morning and afternoon.

Prioritizing quality sleep.

As much as the cult of productivity would have you believe otherwise, our bodies and minds need sleep.

Do whatever you can to get to bed at a consistent time (preferably before 10 pm) every night, in a cool temperature, darkroom.

If your mind is racing, write down your thoughts in a journal. If you (for some reason) have to look at screens within two hours before going to bed, wear blue-light-blocking sunglasses to protect your circadian rhythms.

Cultivating and honoring your personal boundaries.

Being ready and willing to say no and hear no is a necessary life skill if youโ€™re going to maintain your sanity. You must be willing to face the disapproval or disappointment of others in order to do what is right for you in your life.

Being boundaries doesnโ€™t mean that you should arbitrarily go out looking for ways to disappoint peopleโ€ฆ but an attractive man knows when to honor himself by saying no to things that donโ€™t serve him.

Investing in your social circle.

A lack of friends in your life is as bad for you as smoking a pack of cigarettes per day (so says a study that recently came out of Harvard University).

If you find yourself feeling chronically lonely, then investing in your social life is a must.

Not sure where to start? Check out my article How To Make Friends As An Adult to kickstart your process.

4. Put energy into grooming.

Every man wants to be able to feel 100% confident in how he looks, smells, and feels when heโ€™s getting close to someone he finds attractive.

Similar to the amount of energy that you should be putting towards your diet or your exercise, your personal grooming doesnโ€™t need to take up much energy in your life.

Occasionally showering is generally a good call.

Get a quality haircut that fits your face shape. Wash well. Be meticulous about your oral hygiene. Deep dive on your self-cleaning once per week. If you feel so inclined, pick a signature scent that you enjoy wearing.

Small hinges swing big doors. By investing just a bit of time (on a daily, and weekly basis) in your personal grooming, youโ€™ll be a more attractive man in no time.

For more on this topic, check out my article The Ultimate Guide To Male Grooming: 50+ Head To Toe Tips.

5. Know thyself.

An attractive man is a man who knows himself. He knows what he likes, and what he doesnโ€™t like.

He has hobbies, passions, and interests that nourish him, and he engages them regularly.

He has sexual preferences because he knows who he is and what he responds to.

He knows what needs he needs to get met throughout the various compartments of his life, and he makes his needs a consistent priority.

He can be flexible in many areas of his life, but he is not in the habit of abandoning himself or ignoring his needs long-term.

If you are in a phase of self-discovery (arenโ€™t we all) then you will likely know that self-knowing comes from two things. It comes from having experiences, and from observing yourself. So if you are having a hard time figuring out what it is you want out of life (hobbies, friends, partners, etc.) then ramp up these two elements.

Do more things. And reflect more (through meditation, self-observation, journaling, etc.).

One without the other quickly becomes draining. So always make sure youโ€™re balancing the two with one another.

Related: 9 Effortless Ways To Make Small Talk More Meaningful

6. Find your passion and live it every day.

There are few things more attractive than a man who has found and is living his passion.

A cynic would say that this is because the women that he is trying to attract wants him to have a good earning potential. And this may be part of the case (a man who can meet the financial needs of his lifestyle is certainly desirable). But I would argue that the majority of women would prefer to be partnered with a happy man than a rich man (when one is in exclusion to the other). And a man who is fully engaged in living his passion is, more often than not, a contented man.

Back to you. The first step is finding what your heart burns to do in this world.

If you have yet to do this, start here.

Carve out two hours and sit with these questions:

โ€“ What have been five of the happiest days of my life, that I have already lived?

โ€“ What is my life that makes me feel the most?

โ€“ What makes me the happiest?

โ€“ What makes me the most angry?

โ€“ What topic would I happily sit in a 12-hour workshop about?

โ€“ If I had 20 million dollars in my bank account, and I have to leave the house every day, what would I fill my time with?

Write out 1-3 pages of words for each of these things. Once complete, look for the major patterns throughout what you wrote.

Themes will emerge. You will see what actually matters to you.

Once youโ€™ve discovered what really matters to you, itโ€™s simply a matter of finding a job that meets as many of those needs as possible and committing to it.

This stuff isnโ€™t easy. I believe that it takes the ultimate courage to truly commit to what you are meant to do in the world.

Committing, in itself, is only one part of the journey. You will be tested. You will have to recommit, over and over to your path.

Whatever you are meant to do in this world, do it. If you do, you will be able to die emptyโ€ฆ gifts given. If you resist the calling of this path, the parts of yourself that you repress will wreak havoc on your body, mind, and emotions. You will be more prone to addictions, mental disturbances, and engaging in things that help you numb you out to your general state of malaise.

As an added benefit to deciding to live out your passion, you, by default, will end up perpetually growing more and contributing more. And, in my experience of 10+ years of being a professional relationship coach and talking to people from all walks of life, people are never happier than when they are 1) giving, and 2) growing.

Live your passion. You are going to die anyway. Whether you die tomorrow, or in 80 years is entirely beyond your control. So you might as well fill your time with something meaningful that lights your heart on fire.

If you are fortunate enough to be able to read these words (have access to the internet, have enough time on your hands to read articles on the internet, etc.), then you owe it to the world to engage your passions. Donโ€™t you dare settle and phone it in in your life? You have big shoes to fill, and it is your responsibility alone to fill them.

โ€œDonโ€™t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.โ€

7. Become more self-sufficient.

This point will only matter for some of you.

For the long-term lone wolf, points #10 and 11 will likely be more valuable to you than this one (and you can go ahead and skip this point). Some men are already self-sufficient enough and need to lean into the gifts of friendship and community.

But for many modern men, self-sufficiency is a necessary growth edge to lean into.

Do you call your mother at the slightest sign of stress in your life?

Do you call a handyman to do the most basic of home repairs?

Do you need someone to hold you in order to access your tears/sadness/grief?

Are you able to cook yourself a simple, nutrient-dense home-cooked meal (ordering pizza doesnโ€™t count)?

Confidence is attractive. Confidence comes from results. And results come from skill acquisition.

If you find yourself feeling overly reliant on others for every little thing, then cultivating some self-sufficiency might be just what the doctor ordered.

In short, be a man that youโ€™re proud of. Know how to wipe your own ass, literally and metaphorically speaking.

Related: 7 Ways to Cultivate Love in Your Life and Become Happier

8. Become more resourceful.

While conspicuous consumption is one way of being an attractive man that some overindulge in (โ€œHow much do you think he spent on that car???โ€), in the long-term resourcefulness is more attractive than lavishness.

Whether you make $60,000 per year or $60,000 per day is irrelevant. What you do with your resources matters.

Wastefulness is an unattractive trait because it betrays an undisciplined mind.

If you get a small scuff on your shoes and immediately throw them out, how can your partner a) trust you to handle your money well, or b) not dispose of her with the same ease when a small speed bump inevitably happens in your relationship?

Take good care of your things. Be mindful of where your money goes on a monthly basis. Invest in quality products instead of buying quick and dirty disposable goods that youโ€™ll burn through in short order.

Thereโ€™s a balance to be had between the penny-pinching coupon lover and the champagne guzzling dude with 200 Ferrarisโ€ฆ and the difference is consciously engaging in mindful resourcefulness. Respect your resources and they will respect you back.

9. Take responsibility for everything in your life.

Many of the points in this list are all dancing around this subject, so I better name it explicitly.

Unattractive men are dependent, fear-ridden boys who blame others and shirk responsibility every time the wind changes direction.

An attractive man is someone who takes ultimate responsibility for everything in his life. He commits to full ownership.

This doesnโ€™t mean that everything is his fault. Living a healthy lifestyle and receiving a cancer diagnosis isnโ€™t your fault. Being swallowed up in an earthquake isnโ€™t something that you โ€˜manifestโ€™ with your lower-vibrational thoughts.

But an attractive man is willing to accept everything as it is fully, and then is willing to engage in changing it if he so chooses.

Does my wife want more quality time with me? Alright, I will put energy into making that happen. Distraction-free date nights every week. Letโ€™s do this.

I donโ€™t have as much of a financial nest egg as I would like? Thatโ€™s on me. I will budget my lifestyle accordingly, cut necessary corners, and create a plan to start earning more.

I have fallen into the worst physical shape of my life? Time to start eating better, sleeping on a regular schedule, and going to the gym four days a week.

Blame is the opposite of responsibility. Blame is making others responsible. And this very quickly leads to drowning in a state of victim consciousness.

No one is coming to save you. You are an adult. Your life is up to you now.

Related: 17 Reasons Why Mysterious People Are More Attractive

10. Prioritize play, fun, and lightness.

The last thing that I want this list to come off as is โ€˜You have to be a stoic, responsible badass who understands that life is hard and shitty.โ€™

Ultimately, being a holistically attractive man comes down to living a life of totality.

When you take ownership of your life, you take it on 100%. When you need to cry, you feel the sense of deserving and permission to bawl your eyes out. If youโ€™re going to get a haircut, you donโ€™t settle for the $10 Supercuts special down the street, but you know that youโ€™re allowed to invest in your appearance and pay the $40-80 that your head deserves (again, grooming matters).

So just as important as responsibility, ownership, and resourcefulness are, so is play, lightness, and fun.

Cyndi Lauper famously sang โ€œGirls just wanna have funโ€โ€ฆ well so do women. So do all the people.

Few things make you more resilient to life than a sense of humor. As soon as you take yourself too seriously, itโ€™s all downhill from there.

Your potential romantic partners inherently know that life will deal with you with unexpected hardships. So if you approach life with a through-line of playfulness, you will inevitably be more resilient when those hard times come to a knockinโ€™.

If you find yourself feeling heavily divorced from play in your life, at the basic level you want to start doing things that you find fun, simply because they are fun.

Start off by watching my interview with the author of Play It Away, Charlie Hoehn, about the healing and transformative power of play. Then start integrating play into your weekly calendar. Scheduling play sounds like a very type-A thing to do, but it works.

Past that, start proactively looking for the humor in everything. Especially the darkest and most challenging parts of your life. There is always humor to be found. Still feeling stuck? Start going to stand-up comedy shows more often and see how professional comedians find lightness in all facets of life.

If you start creating opportunities for play and searching for laughter in life as much as you have (insert whatever your core focus has been over the last five years โ€“ money, physical fitness, perceived status, etc.) the quality of your life will transform in a matter of days.

11. Have more experiences.

Nothing makes a man more interesting and attractive than living a full and dynamic life.

Whenever men ask me about what to talk about on first datesโ€ฆ or how to make more moneyโ€ฆ or how to not be so anxious in conversationโ€ฆ or how to not be so afraid of dying youngโ€ฆ or not knowing what to do for the next iteration of their career path, my advice often comes down to this: live a fuller life.

If you are showing up and engaging in your life fully, benefits will abound.

You will have a surer sense of who you are (your likes and dislikes). You will have more skills, abilities, and stories to tell. And, last but certainly not least, you will be able to die a better death.

It has been said that much of life is simply a preparation for your death. Show up with courage, willingness, and effort in your life, and you can die content, knowing that you gave it you are all. Or you could underperform, hold back, and show up with timidity, fear, and hesitation, and you can be riddled with pain and regret on your death bed.

Long story short: live fully = die fully. Or, live in constant fear = die with regret. The choice is yours.

As you can see, putting in the work to become a more dynamic and attractive man isnโ€™t for the faint of heart. If it were easy, everyone would be doing it.

But by putting in the work, you get a competitive advantage over others who arenโ€™t willing to truly face and challenge themselves.

Ultimately, this all comes down to putting in work, building a dynamic and fulfilling single life, and then letting who you are speak volumes as you put yourself out into the world.

You donโ€™t need to pick up lines, memorized scripts, tips, tricks, or techniques to become a more attractive man when you speak louder than any words you could say.

Happy growing brother. I wish you the best of luck on your journey.

Dedicated to your success,

Jordan


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