Many of us are aware that being lonely does not mean being physically alone. As loneliness affects people in different ways, here are six basic types of loneliness. We also delve deep into the dangers of loneliness, how it feel to be tired of being alone and depressed and some useful tips to deal with loneliness. On this World Mental Health Day 2023, letโs try to understand loneliness a bit more.ย
โAll I ever wanted was to reach out and touch another human being not just with my hands but with my heart.โ โ Tahereh Mafi, Shatter Me
Everyone from time to time has felt lonely. Physically, you feel hollow and empty inside. As if something is missing within you. Emotionally, you feel alone, sad, and untethered.
For some,ย lonelinessย is a short-lived moment that changes when successful efforts lead to social re-connection. But for others, many others, loneliness is a chronic situation.
Though there are billions of us on this planet, our fast-paced, technologically advanced world is heightening loneliness.ย Researchย reports that chronic loneliness is increasing worldwide and is a public health concern.
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Loneliness Dangers
Loneliness looms larger than painful emotional or physical experiences. Research shows that loneliness is really, really bad for our health. Here are some loneliness statistics:
1. Loneliness increases the likelihood ofย death by 26%.
2. Loneliness in young teens heightens the risk forย mental health disorders.
3. Lonelinessย worsensย your symptoms and length of illness when sick.
4. Loneliness lessens childrenโsย immune responses.
5. Loneliness increases the risk ofย high blood pressure.
6. Loneliness raises your risk forย heart attackย by 29%.
7. Lonely individuals are at higher risk forย disability.
8. Loneliness puts individuals at greater risk ofย cognitive decline.
9. Loneliness raises your risk 32%ย for stroke.
10. Loneliness raises the risk ofย poor physical healthย in children.
11. Loneliness increasesย suicide in the geriatric population.
12. Loneliness increasesย suicidal ideation and suicide attemptsย inย teenagers.
When you consider the above statistics, chronic loneliness is not just bad for your health, it can be deadly. Experts believe we need to view lonelinessย notย as just a social connection gone bad, but as aย diseaseย that needs early detection and treatments.
Types of Loneliness
Loneliness is complex and unique to each person. One of the best ways to recognize if you or a loved one is struggling with loneliness is to understand the different types. Early detection of the beginning stages of loneliness helps interrupt the symptoms from taking root.
1. Interpersonal loneliness
This is the most common kind of loneliness children and adults experience. This is where a person is socially isolated, or perceives him or herself as cut off from a significant other.
2. Social loneliness
This where children or adults are excluded, rejected or perceives themselves to be disconnected from a group or community.
3. Cultural loneliness
When a person feels a disconnect from their own culture or the mainstream culture so much so that they feel they donโt belong anywhere.
4. Intellectual loneliness
Where a child or an adult feels a lack of intellectual stimulation and connectedness to others or a group.
5. Psychological loneliness
Whenย traumaย disrupts a personโs sense of belongingness, loneliness can result. Because no one else can understand the trauma, social withdrawal can occur.
6. Existential loneliness
When mortality is faced by a child or an adult, an isolating sense of loneliness can develop.
Related: 10 Surprising Facts About Loneliness โ The Minds Journal
Strategies to Reduce Loneliness
Fortunately, there is a cure for loneliness. The antidote is social connection. Here are some tips to kick loneliness to the curb.
1. Ask for help.ย
Reach out to friends and family with a phone call or a personal visit. Talk about your feelings of isolation to cue in your loved ones. If you have a significant other, tell him or her that youโre feeling lonely in the relationship. Sharing your feelings helps open the door to greater social involvement.
2. Find purpose.ย
Join a local community, church, or temple group that dovetails with some of your interests. Consider volunteering as another great way to make new friends and socialize. Become aย mentorย and pass along yourย wisdomย to another person.
3. Seek a four legged friend.ย
Consider adopting a pet. Creating a bond with a dog, cat or other animal companion can ease feelings of loneliness and improve well being.
4. Unplug from computer/phone/social media and connect in real life.
Remember to disconnect from technology and put yourself into the real world.ย Studiesย show that offline interactions have more positive social effects than online activities. Young adults and teens who spend a lot of time on social media areย twice as likelyย to feel lonely.
5. For homebound children or adults.
In-person visits, phone calls, and old-school mailed cards from you can lift symptoms of loneliness in a family or friend. If you want your loved one to have more involvement, seek services like โmeals on wheels,โ โvisiting friends,โ โpet visit programsโ as well as โreach out and read library servicesโ in your community.
Related: The Dilemma Of Loneliness: How To Stop Feeling Lonely
Want to know more tips to deal with loneliness? Check this video out below!
Loneliness may strike anybody, at any time and in any place. We hope that if you find yourself lonely or isolated, you will use these tips for loneliness to help you overcome it.
What do you think? Let us know in comment section below.
Written By Deborah Serani Originally Appeared In Psychology Today
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