Sometimes when we think our lives are falling apart what we don’t see, is that they might just be falling into place. While change is not always welcomed, it is always warranted and often when we think that our lives have fallen into utter disarray, it’s because everything is realigning to match our true intentions and desires…
1. Everything you dislike has become unbearable
There is nothing quite like the feeling of irritability. It’s as if it comes out of nowhere like a mosquito in the night, causing you to itch until your skin is scarred.
When the little things in life that never really bothered you much before, start surmounting right before your eyes… know that change is coming.
It has to. There is only so much negativity we can take, until finally the last straw breaks and we snap… into action.
2. You feel lost
We’ve all heard that getting lost is the best way to find yourself. Truly though, it sounds a little backwards, that is until… we can understand why.
When you’re lost, you don’t have a direction and when you have no direction, you have no desire.
When you have no desire, you have no want or need of anything and when you have no want or need of anything, this is when your soul will speak.
While you may feel out of control, you are the most clear at this time and in the perfect disposition to accept a higher knowing of what your heart truly, selflessly and completely wants you to see and understand.
This, then sets you on a new path, a radical change that may have been desperately needed and one that puts you into alignment with your mind, body, heart and soul.
3. You’re Coming Out of the Incubator
Have you ever noticed that certain periods of your life are completely packed full of outings and adventures, fun-filled with friends and family to the point where you feel you can barely keep up?
While other periods are marked with isolation, introspection and near (if not full-blown) depression?
The length of these cycles can vary, but each and every one of us go through these momentum shifts in the course of our lives.
These periods can be marked with catastrophic endings or heart breaking losses, all the while we already had an inner knowing, that the end of the chapter was coming and that it was time to turn the page and look forward to the next, long ago…
These shifts are alike to a heart beat that pulses, and as we navigate our lives to the beat of this drum we find ourselves cocooned and introspective at moments, and more open with the world on the “out pulse”.
These cycles are needed as we endeavor and formulate our perspective of the world. The introspective periods offer emotional, psychological and spiritual growth while the outward pulses offer experience, travel and new perspectives to take hold of.
When you are coming out of the incubator period, it serves as a “mini re-birth”. That is to say, the time it has taken you to recharge, review and reevaluate in order to set out on a new goal, a new direction and a new life.
4. You feel scared, excited and anxious all at the same time.
Your incubator stage and healing is ending its cycle and you’ve gained a new direction, so what’s next? When it’s scary and exciting.. you just have to do it.
At this point you can just feel that something big is about to happen and the momentum is building.
You have no idea what to expect, but you just know that you are on the right path and can’t wait to find what’s at the end of the tunnel.