5 Examples That Help Distinguish Childish Love vs. Mature love
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It hasn’t been a good month for relationships so far in January 2014. An Italian man asked to go to jail over living under “house arrest” with his wife and Dwayne Wade had to inform his newly engaged fiancé thahe recently fathered a love child.
You may be wondering what is the big deal, or you may be so outraged as my man MoKelly was in his blog the Mo’Kelly report to just throw up your hands and say there is just no hope.
I say it comes down to one thing, mature love vs. childish love.
A lot of people enter into love relationships for the wrong reasons. They bring the same vulnerabilities and emotional feelings they had as children. With that mindset, the same behaviors go along with it.
As a child, who is unable to meet his/her needs, his caretakers or in this case his/her partner become all-powerful and expressions of praise and approval become emotional blankets.
Dr. Harville Hendrix states very eloquently that we unconsciously choose mates who reflect both positive and negative qualities of our original caretakers, in order to resolve the unfinished business of our childhood. That’s why people so often say “I knew she was the one as soon as I laid eyes on her” or “I felt as if I’d known him all m life.”
So what type of love relationship do you have? Here are a few 5 examples:
Most relationships can work if you show up and commit yourself to grow up!
Do you believe in long distance relationships? If you’re in one, you must know how satisfying and equally challenging it can get. Understanding how to make long distance relationships work, can, therefore, be the most important thing for you, right now!
Successful long-distance relationships (LDRs) are proof that even in today’s fast paced world of speed dating, ghosting, and phubbing, for some people at least, love is still about emotions, feelings, patience, values, faith, and trust.
For them, distance, carnal desires, and instant gratification don’t matter; what matters is to be true to their heart’s de
Ever looked at your partner and, out of nowhere, felt the ick? The way they chew, the way they breathe, even the way they exist near you suddenly feels unbearable. If this sounds familiar, you might be experiencing Sudden Repulsion Syndrome (SRS). Here’s a breakdown of what it might mean in your relationship!
This strange phenomenon can strike out of nowhere, especially in long-term relationships or marriage. One day, everything feels normal, and the next, you can’t stand being around your partner. But why does this happen? More importantly, how do you overcome it?
What Is Sudden Repulsion Syndrome In Marriage or Long-term Relationships?
Do you love hard? And did it push your partner away, instead of pulling them closer? If yes, then you might be dealing with an avoidant! So, how to get an avoidant ex back? Let’s find out!
Reconnecting with an ex is challenging enough! To top it all off, if your ex is someone with an avoidant attachment style, you have your work cut out for you.
Avoidants can’t handle emotional pressure or demands. They are hyper independent people who value their personal space a little bit too much.
And if you’re someone with an anxious attachment style, then chances are you have come on too strong, and scared them off.
Being mean to your partner doesn’t always look like full-blown fights or throwing personal insults around. More often than not, it’s those little, unintentional habits that slowly chip away at your relationship, and by the time you notice them, it’s already too late.
You might be under the impression that you are simply joking around or being honest with them, but have you ever asked your partner if they feel the same way as you? Maybe there are signs you are the toxic partner, but you have never really stopped and thought about it.
We all screw up sometimes, but recognizing the problem is the first step to fixing it. So, let’s break down some of the sneaky ways you might be being mean to your partner—without even realizing it.
We all know who messy modern relationships can be. Swipe right, swipe left, ghosting, breadcrumbing, situationships – it’s a circus out there and things are getting even crazier! In the midst of all this, exists something called “agape love”. Today, we are going to talk about what it is and the signs of agape love.
So, what keeps some relationships rock-solid when everything else feels disposable? It’s agape love. And once you experience and understand the characteristics of agape love in your life, it’s like an eureka moment.
You realize that true and unconditional love is more than butterflies and romantic gestures; it’s more about being there when it matters the most, even when things may seem tough.
Let’s first try to understand what is the meaning of agape love really.
Ghosting, breadcrumbing, and all those exhausting dating games, who has the time anymore? If you’re over the confusion and just want something real, it’s time to embrace loud looking dating strategy!
What Is Loud Looking Dating Strategy?
As per Tinder’s Year in Swipe 2024, loud looking is all about putting your intentions out there, no filters, no second-guessing. Whether you’re searching for casual fun or your future
Dating a reserved person is like opening a book with a locked cover and several layers – it takes time, finesse and patience to understand them. Don’t expect them to open up in the very first date itself, nor will they shout their love from the rooftops.
But once you understand how to handle their quiet charm and silent nature, you will discover that reserved individuals love very deeply, think profoundly and make some of the most loyal partners out there.
So, if you are dating a reserved man or woman, this article is going to help navigate dating them without making things awkward.
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