3 Tips for Finding the Perfect Partner for You

3 Tips for Finding the Perfect Partner for You

3.  As we learn to cherish our own humanity and stop trying to force ourselves into more attractive packaging, we begin to find ourselves meeting (and being attracted to) people who are kinder, more generous, and more available.

This never ceases to amaze me. And we find ourselves less likely to want to run for the hills when, amazingly, they like us back. Far better than attempting to become irresistible is the heroic act of becoming ourselves — and gaining the dignity to only choose people who value us for who we really are. That’s when our search for love stops being a painful game of chance and becomes a journey that’s truly worth our time.

Written by Ken Page L.C.S.W.

Originally appeared on Psychology Today

Printed with permission from the author

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