There are some people who are full of mystery. We don’t know much about them, we become curious and want to learn more about them. Here are some reasons why mysterious people seem more attractive to us.
We don’t know much about their likes and dislikes, they appear to be deep thinkers who don’t talk much, and they have an unusual charm that makes them appealing to us.
Most of us are drawn to people who evoke a sense of mystery because of their uniqueness. They make us want to learn more about them and discover their hidden depths. It is human nature to pursue something until we know everything there is to know about it. As a result, we are drawn to mysterious people, and everything they do or say, or rather don’t say, appeals to us more.
Read on to know more about the reasons why being mysterious is attractive.
Here Are 17 Reasons Why Mysterious People Seem More Attractive
1. They don’t talk much
As people, we are used to talking about our day, what we like doing and what we don’t. But, there are people who don’t talk much about their day, what they have done, etc. This makes you want to get to know them even more and pushes you to want to understand them better.
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2. They’re unpredictable and difficult to read
People with mysterious personality are quite unpredictable and reading their minds is impossible. They will never tell you straight out how they feel as they are not the expressive kind and that uncertainty can bother you a lot.
3. They only interact with close friends
Mysterious people build close relationships with only a very few people. They aren’t too famous, but it still makes you want to be a part of their life and one of the closest people in their life.
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4. They are not expressive but have a soft heart
They don’t express themselves and act like they’re strong. But, deep down you know that they are emotional souls who care about the little things and you want to help them to open up to you.
5. They are self-sufficient
They have created a boundary between themselves and the world. This is necessarily not a negative thing. It means that they are self-sufficient, which again makes them more attractive.
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6. They play by the rules
They live their life according to a set of rules and do not care about what others will think. They don’t follow anyone and are not interested in doing things for the sake of being trendy.
7. They’re not crazy about social media
We update and post pictures to stories about what we like and where we are going or who we are with. You’ll hardly find mysterious people on social media because they don’t care about followers, likes, or what other people think.
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8. They remain aloof from you
When you look good you want them to compliment you. But they hardly notice you or act indifferent towards you. This kills you and you just want to go and talk to them.
9. They have a deep and intellectual nature
You’ll find them sitting alone in a café or library, sipping on some coffee. You know they’re smart and seem intellectual by the books they read. It also looks like they’re always in deep thought and this further intrigues you.
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10. They don’t engage in gossip unlike others
You don’t like people who are judgemental. The reason you find them attractive is that unlike other people they don’t engage in gossip and keep to themselves. Most importantly, they don’t like talking badly about others.
11. They don’t get angry easily and keep to themselves
You will hardly know that they’re annoyed. They have a calm demeanor even when situations are difficult, and they never make any decisions in haste; keeping a cool and rational mind is of utmost importance to them. That’s why they are the ones who will probably give you the best advice.
12. They are quite observant
They like to analyze situations. When things go wrong, they will easily understand what you’re going through. They won’t humiliate you and will talk to you alone and try to understand where you are coming from.
13. They love their “alone time”
They love their alone time and pursue the hobbies they are passionate about. If you are close to them, they will motivate you to pursue the same. What’s more attractive than someone who is passionate, and feels comfortable with solitude?
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14. They don’t make things complicated
They don’t throw tantrums or get angry easily. Mysterious people are simple and they don’t really like to make things complicated. They are self-sufficient and will find a solution to their problems without worrying other people, or making them feel stressed out.
15. Their way of life is simple
Unlike other people, they don’t have a basic outlook on life; they see and feel life differently. They have a lot of conviction about their opinions and on top of that, they help you see the world from a different point of view.
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16. They have a charismatic aura
There is something very charismatic about them. They stand out of the crowd, in the way they talk or in just the way they are. They don’t find it important to impress anybody and are confident enough to know that they are perfect the way they are. They like being themselves, and never seek other people’s validation.
17. They are full of surprises
Lastly, they are full of surprises, and every time they come up with something new, you will be blown away. This will make sure that the attraction never dies out between you, and things are always exciting.
Wrapping Up
Mysterious people do not reveal much about themselves so we feel like we want to know them more, making us find them slightly more attractive. The attraction increases over time when we see them around and we just want to go and speak our minds to them. Since mysterious people are good observers, they probably already know that you find them attractive.
We hope that you’ve found the appropriate reasons why you find mysterious people attractive. Don’t be afraid to talk to them, as they like honesty and if they open up to you then chances are that they also share the same feelings!
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