Have you chosen to let go of your twin flame? Then you must know how extremely painful moving away from twin flame can be, but there are ways that can make the process of ending twin flame relationships easier. Read the following article to know more about twin flame separation.
For many of the twin flames that are currently on earth, the shift over the last few years has taken its toll on our relationship and we have to walk away and end the entanglement. What can you expect and do if you find yourself in this situation?
When I first came across information about twin flames, I read a piece that went something along the lines of, when a twin flame is born, they spend their whole life knowing and sensing that something is missing, but never knowing what that something is – until they day they meet their twin flame.
On that day, at that moment, they know what was missing and they feel complete, and they can never again be away from their twin flame without feeling and knowing that loss deeply.
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I never imagined how painful that loss would be, and I wasnโt prepared for it the day I walked away from my twin flame.
Ending Twin Flame Relationship: What Does It Feel Like?
If youโre a twin flame, chances are your life has had spiritual aspects, trials, and challenges in it โ so youโre no stranger to pain. Neither am I.
Still, I was totally unprepared for how walking away from my twin flame relationship would impact me. For a start, the sense that Iโm moving towards something and someone important has gone. It almost feels like thereโs nothing exciting that is coming up or can happen for me with love. In a way, Iโve lost hope in love. Thatโs never happened before.
Secondly, I feel strangely complete. Itโs odd to feel that because Iโve never really had a relationship that I felt met my needs. Yet after this, I feel complete, like no one can add anything else by being in a romantic relationship with me, and thereโs no point in even trying. For the first time in my life, I honestly think I donโt want a relationship. Thatโs definitely new, because like you, the relationship has always been the first prize for me.
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The Next Lesson Of Love: What happens when you walk away from twin flame?
It was the thinking about feeling complete that eventually led me to realize what the next lesson of love is, after the twin flame and losing the twin flame.
The universe and teachers always say that โ thereโs always another lesson, thereโs always more to learn, but on Earthโs plane? What more could there be to learn of love than a complete and completing twin flame relationship?
At its essence, the twin flame relationship is the love and acceptance of the self โ the highest actualization that we know. You love wholly another aspect of your own soul, your Self. So what could come after that?
Well, the answer is Messianic love: the ability to completely love anyone comes after ending twin flame relationships.
Of course, that doesnโt mean that youโll find someone you want to love or someone that can handle the intensity of your focus and love, but the love that will begin to arise in you after you finally start to recover from having your soul shattered is a deep love for any, and the ability to be able to express it consciously and at will.
And thatโs basically a nice way of saying youโre going to have to CHOOSE to love the next person with this next lesson of love. The heady rush of falling in love is most likely behind you. This experience will change you forever, and like many lessons, it doesnโt always feel comfortable and wonderful at first.
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Ending Twin Flame Relationship: Why Does It Happen?
If twin flames are so perfectly matched and the love and energy they create are so important, then why do so many of those relationships end?
When a twin flame is created, the twins each carry halves of dualities, like the yin yang. Each is mostly one way, with a small touch of the opposite characteristic, and they balance each other out by co-existing together. The same thing happens when they meet on a planetary plane and have a relationship โ they meet to balance dualities in each other.
Sometimes these dualities are extreme. In many cases, theyโre also compounded by karma, and lessons tend to get harder with each subsequent round, and each lifetime.
For many of the twin flames, theyโre battling huge gaps and separation in their personalities and what they want and need to make the relationship work (dualities), and this is compounded by the fact that the universe gave a super-hard lesson because this happens to be the sixth or seventh lifetime you guys are working on this stuff.
Add in all the energetic chaos weโve had with the shift and the stop-start energy of stuff, and itโs no surprise that a number of twin flame relationships are buckling under the strain.
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Ending Twin Flame Relationship: How Do You Make It Easier On Yourself?
I had two strong clues that my relationship was a twin flame relationship: first, any session done on the two of us the session wouldnโt take us as one being, it treated us as a couple.
Secondly, from the day we met, we threw each other out of sync energetically. If he was up with business, I was down. If I was sick and got better, he got sick immediately after. And there were a million other similar examples that Iโm sure you recognize from your own experience.
This led me to the following realization: if I kept throwing us out of sync by working on one of us energetically at a time, then maybe the way to fix us was to work on both of us at the same time.
That led to a series of BodyTalk sessions done on the couple where we balanced major energies (workflow, money, success, commitment, focus, vitality, luck) across the relationship and pair. We started seeing improvement after that.
Thatโs also led to a morning ritual where I connect to my twin flame energetically and balance the energies between us every single morning. Additionally, any forgiveness and release work I do, I do include him. So when I ask for peace and forgiveness, I ask that it is chosen for him too.
I have experimented with holding anger or trying to block him out, but how do you block out your own soul? That just causes pain and seriously messes with your focus. If Iโm really battling with it, what helps is to reinforce any cords, bonds, and connections to him and then flow forgiveness energy through that non-stop.
At the end of the day, this is just one lifetime in the midst of many, many lifetimes you will share. You canโt hate yourself and you canโt withhold forgiveness from yourself forever.
Ending twin flame relationships will hurt like a bitch, but the tips above will make it easier to manage, quicker to recover from, and will help get you through the worst of the pain so that you can find a space in which to express your love again. You do deserve that little bit of happiness โ and so does the other you, your twin flame.
Written By Chemory Gunko Originally Appeared On Life Coaches Toolbox
We hope the above-given article helped you to find answers on the topic of ending twin flame relationships. Walking away from your twin flame is a very personal decision, both emotionally and spiritually. We wish you all the healing and success in your journey.
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