There are few things in life you just cannot force. Relationships and friendships are something you cannot force. You cannot force someone to give efforts, to make you feel better when you are down, to be there for you.. Efforts, love, affection these can’t be forced. It either comes naturally or it just doesn’t and you can never control that. So don’t try to control. If the same energy isn’t served, have the courage to leave, no matter how deep the bond is because you deserve the same energy. You don’t deserve someone in half measures, you deserve all.