Heartbreak can change you, and you might need someone to help you with that pain. But, stay single until you find the person who heals you.
We are always told we need to heal on our own before we go into new relationships.
You canโt love someone until you love yourself is the expression. But what happens when heartbreak makes you question yourself and everything you are?
What happens when youโve done everything youโre supposed to and your heart still aches as the one it beats for is absent?
I think sometimes you have to trust love one more time and trust maybe love is the solution to heartbreak.
Stay single until you meet someone who respects the pain you feel.
Someone who understands your heart isnโt whole but itโs okay.
Stay single until you meet the person who isnโt afraid to put the broken pieces back together.
But isnโt rushing to do so.
The person who walks through the healing process with you.
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The one who will understand there might be days youโre still hurting.
And instead of being resentful, you are still thinking of someone in the past they are there to remind you they are here in the present and want to be in your future.
The one who isnโt trying to fix you they are simply trying to love you.
Stay single until you meet the person who knows the value of a heart like yours and wouldnโt dare break it.
Stay single until you meet someone who teaches you itโs okay to let go of your pain and mistakes of the past.
That you shouldnโt hold it against yourself.
Stay single until you meet the person who is okay that you donโt have it all together but they are willing to help you get there.
Stay single until you meet someone who suddenly begins to replace those thoughts in the morning of pain with the fearful happiness of meeting someone new.
The person you watch yourself fall for, even if youโre scared to do so.
Because one side of you says you donโt want to get hurt again and you should run. But the other side says trust love one more time.
Stay single until you meet the person who makes you realize why it didnโt work out with someone else.
The person you look at and think, โthank God I didnโt get it right before.โ
Stay single until you meet the person who replaces that emptiness with a feeling so whole.
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Until then stay single.
Written By Kirsten Corley
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