Accept that the narcissist is what he/she is. They are totally incapable of love and deep connection. Nothing you did or didn’t do would have changed the outcome. You were not loved for YOU as a person. You were viewed as an object and loved for your utility not for your individuality. You were used for the perks you were able to provide. You were their human helium tank that maintained their inflated view of themselves. I know it sounds harsh and it’s a very painful realization to accept. But the acceptance of this fact is also the very thing that will accelerate your healing and set you free.
Constantly claiming to be a victim is not a sign of virtue. It’s a strategy for narcissists and psychopaths to get ahead.
Data: people who regularly signal victimhood are more willing to lie, cheat, and steal.
Beware those who air personal grievances like every day is Festivus.
– Adam Grant
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You figure out who they really are and now they realize you are much stronger than they thought you could be.
Maybe they saw you were destroyed once, but now you came back stronger than ever, in spite of all of the trauma that you experienced.That makes you strong. That makes you a badass.
When the narcissist realizes that not only do you now know who & what they are, but that you also recognize your VALUE and SELF-WORTH they know the show is over for them.
They want to scatter and fear about who you are going, to tell the truth about who they really are. They will be compelled to tell lies to common acquaintances (smear campaign) in an effort to discredit an
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