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Let Me Be Crystal Clear:

“Let me be crystal clear: if you’ve faced a tragedy and someone tells you in any way, shape or form that your tragedy was meant to be, that it happened for a reason, that it will make you a better person, or that taking responsibility for it will fix it, you have every right _to remove them from your life. Grief is brutally painful. Grief does not only occur when someone dies. When relationships fall apart, you grieve. When opportunities are shattered, you grieve. When dreams die, You — grieve. When illnesses wreck you, you grieve. –So I’m going to repeat a few words I’ve uttered –countless times; words so powerful and honest they tear at the hubris of every jackass who F. participates in the debasing of the grieving: Some things in life cannot be fixed. They can only be carried.”