He screamed at me, โliaarr!!โ At that moment I couldnโt muster enough energy to correct him and defend myself once again. I was utterly exhausted and yet mind numbingly in love with him.
Dear Readers, let me start off by calling myself a liar, a pathological liar. It was one of those sticky summer nights we spoke for the first time ; during the first few minutes of the conversation, it was apparent that he was older than me, fearing he would back off knowing my age, I lied. I lied about my age.
The second time was during the first few weeks. In my young mind, I was an inexperienced school girl who had to come up with daring stories to hold his interests. Little did I know these series of concocted stories would be forming a wholly different perception of me in his adult mind.
The third time was at the start of our separation. He was devastated by my decision after all the attachment was too strong to forget. I was driven by my will to give both of us a chance to be happy. I was too young to understand that relationships needed work and it wasnโt supposed to be glamorous always. So I decided to lied. I lied about having another in my life ; giving him the impression that he was completely forgotten. Hoping, he would realise what an absolute waste of time I was and finally move on. While I was burning inside with grief.
The fourth was during our separation. He was having the time of his life ; visiting exotic places with sunny smiles and expressions so joyous that youโd automatically smile looking at the photographs. I decided to continue with my lie. Because I am petty. I wanted to show him I, too can get over you as you did. I have another in my life.
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We are living together now. But he doesnโt trust me. Because I am a liar. I am drowning.
Impressions lasts a lifetime, readers. And like the English moralist, Joseph Hall has said โA reputation once broken may possibly be repaired, but the world will always keep their eyes on the spot where the crack was.โ
Controlling partners often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize. Are you also in a relationship with someone who makes you feel loved at one point then in another constantly dictates your actions, thoughts, or even emotions?
These are classic signs of controlling partners. They often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize.
So if you want to identify these signs then below are what controlling partners do to you.
A good morning is not about strict rules.It is not a secret hack or magic trick.It is about giving yourself a little hug.A moment just for you before the world shouts for your time.
Think of your morning like a warm cup of tea on a cold day.It wakes you up with a smile.It helps you get ready to take on the day.
Ready to build a morning that feels right for you?Let us talk about making your morning magic.
If you think you are in a marriage of convenience, you will know that it doesn’t feel like a fairy tale, rather it’s about maintaining the status quo. Maybe you are staying in this marriage because everything is “okay” and “stable”.
All the bills are getting paid on time, the house is comfortable, and the kids are happy to have both their parents under the same roof. Moreover, you don’t want to deal with the hassle that comes with filing for a divorce, so you just…stay.
Does this sound familiar? The unfortunate truth is that many married couples stay in a loveless marriage because dealing with the alternate option is scary. Theyโre together, but theyโre not really together. They function more like roommates, business partners, or co-parents rather than lovers.
Knowing how to set boundaries is a game-changerโitโs how you protect your time, energy, and sanity without feeling guilty. Whether itโs with friends, family, or coworkers, setting boundaries helps you avoid burnout and unnecessary drama. Letโs talk about how to do it like a pro.
KEY POINTS
Upholding our boundaries means sometimes saying โnoโ when others wish we would say โyes.โ
Setting boundaries can create conflict, even when our behavior is healthy and we act with kindness.
Itโs normal to feel uneasy or even guilty after people react badly to our boundaries.
Hereโs your monthly horoscope for February 2025!
The month starts with Aquarius season in full swing, so itโs the perfect time to march to the beat of your own drum and forget about what anyone else thinks. The beginning of the month also brings a dreamy and almost magical energy between Venus, Neptune, and the North Node in Pisces. This is the vibe for deep, fated connections and romantic moments that feel straight out of a fantasy. Trust your gutโlove is in the air, and it’s looking pretty rosy.
On February 4, Jupiter ends its retrograde in Gemini, meaning the floodgates to abundance are about to swing wide open. That same day, Venus moves into fiery Aries, giving love and pleasure a boost of passion. Get ready to make bold moves and go after what you want. Then, on February 9, Mercury has a moment of brilliance in Aquarius
The new moon in Aquarius is here to kick off a fresh lunar cycle! This powerful new moon, which happens on January 29 at 7:36 a.m. EST, brings a chance for new beginnings. As it falls in the innovative and forward-thinking sign of Aquarius, it’s a time to welcome change, creativity, and fresh ideas.
Aquarius is all about thinking outside the box, focusing on the bigger picture, and connecting with others. This new moon will highlight themes of friendship, community, and collaboration, making it a great time to set intentions related to teamwork and group activities.
With Aquarius encouraging radical shifts and new perspectives, you may feel a burst of inspiration or experience a shift in how you see the world. New moons are the perfect time to reflect and plan, so take advantage of this energy to make thoughtful
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