Solitude is underrated and being single is still a social stigma.
There is a joy in being single and it isn’t as bad as society wants us to believe.
Due to fear of being alone and in an attempt to dodge the questions that society hurls at us, many persist to a bad and toxic relationship.
People need to realize, being single is perfectly okay and none ever needs to endure a relationship just for the sake escaping the questions put on by the social stigma.
Of course, a relationship has its colors, and there is a different magical warm feeling of being in a relationship but if your relationship doesn’t feel like magic, it’s better to be single than being in a toxic and destructive relationship.
There is a comfort in being single and alone and you can feel it when you learn to enjoy your own company. A dysfunctional relationship gives you nothing but stress and pain.
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Being in a relationship requires you to open your heart out i.e be vulnerable and being vulnerable, my dear, makes you an easy prey for the predators out there.
8 reasons why it’s better to be single
1. It’s okay to sleep alone than with someone unworthy
Sex is much more than just physical intimacy; it is a magical experience where in you get connected spiritually. It’s better to spend the night alone than let someone unworthy have your body.
Sex is not everything and without love, sex is nothing but lust. It is better to sleep alone with comfort then submit yourself to lust.
2. It’s better to wake up alone than wake up beside a stranger.
It’s better to wake up alone with yourself respect intact than to wake up beside a stranger who was in your bed just for the sake of it.
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3. It’s better to eat alone than spend a boring evening with someone
Small talks are boring and nothing feels like a bigger waste than having to endure a boring date.
It’s better to eat alone and treat yourself rather than spending time with someone who doesn’t share anything in common with you, someone who cannot create interest.
4. It’s better to be carefree than be with someone doesn’t make you feel comfortable with being yourself.
I would rather be myself than be someone I am not just for the sake of a relationship.
Relationships are supposed to empower your true self. If you cannot be true to yourself or if your partner cannot embrace your real self, it’s better to be alone.
5. It’s better to attend events alone than with someone different every time
It’s way lot easier to take yourself there and enjoy. No embarrassments and no questions to dodge.
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6. It’s better to not get any messages than wait for one.
The best way to not be disappointed is to not expect. The relationship is full of expectations, it requires almost constant communication.
You share a part of your life and when you keep waiting for a text a hope and expectations within breaks leading you to disappointment.
While alone you just don’t expect or wait. You can throw yourself on the couch and relax knowing you don’t expect anything from someone and vice versa.
7. It’s better to prioritize your friends than to live in fear of leaving them for someone unworthy
The worst type of love often drags you down to a position where you will have to choose between friends or your partner. You cannot give up on your friends who were always there for you and neither can you give up on your partner who you dearly love but is the partner worth it if he makes you choose between things you love?
Being single you need not worry about this. You can choose your friends who fit and keep them on your wish, no one dictates your life.
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8. It’s better to be lonely than be in a relationship where you feel alone.
A relationship is supposed to make you feel bonded but there is no denying that the companions we get are not always good.
People often end up with someone miserable who makes them feel alone despite the promises of the beautiful union.
Once the honeymoon phase i.e first few weeks of the relationship is over there is a void. You feel all alone on your own, almost nonexistent to your partner.
It’s better being single and alone than to be with such partner because somehow they end making you feel worthless.
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