5 Best Writing Tools for After Divorce Remedy

Saying a divorced woman’s life has been turned upside down by a failed marriage is a massive understatement. Everything you knew will have changed in some way or another. Every routine you had in your life will have altered permanently. You can look at your divorce as if it were an unbreakable roadblock, or you can think of it as a fresh new beginning where you are only limited by your sense of determination and your imagination.

Dealing With A Divorce Is Never Easy

No doubt you feel a wide range of mixed emotions, but do yourself a favor and forget about emotions for a while. It is time to start growing and exploring your options. Don’t allow stress to get on top of you.

Don’t opt to do things in silence where you may dwell on what went wrong. If you feel stress bubbling up, take time to yourself and try a few of these stress-relieving activities.

  Do anything creative. You cannot dwell if you are creating, and there is no limit to whichever creative field you explore.

  See your friends more and re-connect with forgotten members of your family.

  Take up exercise. After a few weeks, your jogging and swimming will start to feel really good. Try to achieve a runner’s high.

  Spend more time with your kids and do fun activities that you never used to do. Remember that they have to adjust too.

  Try creative writing, or even try academic writing. Start by writing down your top ten tips for women who have just divorced. Give people the benefit of your experience and show them you are not alone.

Writing Is Easy…Being A Good Writer Is Very Difficult

The reason why so many online articles and why so many e-books are terrible is because the act of writing is easy, but being a good, engaging, informative and entertaining writer is very difficult. What is worse is that most people don’t know how bad they are at writing because each writer is blinded by his or her pride of creation. Some call it “Pride of Authorship” thanks to the Simpsons, but its first mention in academic journals notes it as the Ikea Effect. The theory is that if you create something, you are often blinded by your own attachment to it to the point where you cannot see its flaws and you feel personally insulted when it is criticized.

Becoming a good and professional writer involves improving yourself every time you write. Each writing session should end with a cold and clinical analysis of what you have written and how you have written it. If you do not end each writing session by learning something, then you are not improving. Here are 7 effective writing techniques for modern professionals that may help you improve your writing techniques. Here are five tools to help improve your writing skills.

1. Paper Rater

Its primary aim may be to rate your paper, but that is not what it does best. This tool is a fantastic spelling and grammar checker. It picks up typos and syntax errors. Run the spelling and grammar tool on your word processor and then try this tool to see how many mistakes you missed during your first check. This tool also points out errors that are not incorrect, but things such as WordPress website builders will say are incorrect. For example, if you start a sentence with the same word three times, then the PaperRater tool will point it out before the “Readability” tool on your WordPress website builder points it out.

  •   Learn from what you find out from this tool. Don’t take every suggestion it presents to you. If you are not sure, then look up the mistake. Over time, your written English skills will improve and you will let go of all your repetitive mistakes.

2. SpellCheck24

If you have to write with a different form of English, then this tool is a great help. Let’s say you have to write an article for Australians, then another for Canadians, and another for people in the US. This tool allows you to change the type of written English you are checking. It points out errors that may not be incorrect in your country, but are incorrect in another English-speaking country. The tool is also handy for picking out punctuation errors.

  • Learn from this tool by taking into account how the English language differs from country to country. Soon, you will know when to use “Whilst” (UK) and when to use “While” (USA).

3. SpellCheckPlus

Do you still have trouble with commas, semi colons and apostrophes? You are not alone, but there is a tool that will help you out. The SpellCheckPlus may pick out a few errors that your other spelling and grammar tools missed, but what it does best is point out potential punctuation mistakes. It points out errors that other spelling and grammar checkers miss because they may be technically correct, but they are not correct in the context of what you have written. Learn from what you see on this spelling and grammar checker and improve your written English as a result.

  • Punctuation may seem easy. It may seem like something that only schoolchildren suffer with, but it is a minefield full of possible mistakes. Slowly eliminate your repetitive errors with this spell-check tool.

4. CopyScape

Why would you need a plagiarism checker such as CopyScape if you are writing your own content? The reason is because you when read other pieces of text, sometimes you transcribe what you have read into your own work without realizing it. If you are relying heavily on the work of others for your research, then consider running a plagiarism check to be sure you haven’t accidentally copied anything verbatim.

When people use companies such as Australian Writings, they run their work through plagiarism checkers to see if it is original. It is always a good idea to check to see if text is plagiarized if you have bought it from somebody else.

5. A Soft Murmur

If you are still a little emotionally vulnerable, you may find your thoughts drifting down an unwelcome path when you are sat in silence. It happens to all of us (even writers) when we undergo sad or distressing times in our lives. A Soft Murmur offers a truly fantastic way for keeping those thoughts at bay. It creates background noise that drowns out distracting thoughts, but doesn’t engage your brain enough to pull you away from your writing. This article was written with the “Thunder” and “Rain” track playing.

It is not about distracting yourself. It is about getting into a mindset where you concentrate on the task at hand without allowing your emotions and your own mind to distract you. Some of the noises are also very relaxing, which will help you enjoy writing a little more.

Conclusion

Writing may not be the best way to cure your worrying and stress, but it may be, so you should at least give it a try. If you still find yourself becoming stressed and heated, then broaden your horizons a little to include other creative tasks. Even if your creation is terrible, which it probably will be, you will slowly become better and better the more you practice. Don’t wallow in sadness, try your hand at creating and see where it takes you.

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