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Parenting is an art,
Use your heart.
Don’t pull reins…
It will leave on the relationship
you can control the life of a child
but don’t turn the child
into your own puppet.
You can lead a child toward education,
But you can’t make the child learn
The same things you did.
Their reins may control his direction
but will blind his own vision forever.
You child is not an animal to be tamed,
your child is a spirit
to be set free in guidance
Don’t ride piggyback on your kids
with your own expectations
You can do this!
We’ve got your back!
A child who is bridled by their parents
will have a difficult time
navigating in the world
independently as an Adult.
I could handle the weight of the bag
but their expectations weighed the most.
The shoulders of a child are far stronger
than the adults can imagine;
his mind much innovative
than the adults can comprehend.
The total conformity of a child
may inhibit the growth
of adulthood and freedom!
You can help your child to see the world,
but at the end of the day,
let the vision be theirs.
Your parents are there to guide you
along the right path.
Rein in your egos and agendas,
be conscious of your own baggage…
Do not overburden your child with control
stop controlling your child’s mind.
Believe in them! Let them feel the world,
create a better one and own it!!
A parent’s guidance…not control….
is critical to the success
of the next generation.
“Harness” of your expectations;
fogs their “life’s vision”.
To guide is their duty
and to master is his.
Phyllis Snider Boyer
Don’t mistake ‘Control’ for ‘Guidance’.
Guidance shows love.
Control merely shows dominance.
Does “the best well-wisher”
tag entitle a parent to navigate
and toy-with a child’s life?
Guide, not direct.
Don’t be a charioteer,
your kids are not horses.
Put your reins on them
and shackle them with your ties.
Wild horses run unbridled,
Or the spirit dies.
Don’t ride piggyback
On the shoulders of your kid,
With your own unfulfilled
Dreams and aspirations.
We always bear the weight
of other people’s expectations,
follow the path they want us to lead
not knowing what we want
or capable of doing in our life.
Mettle & Makeover
Stop holding the reins
to your child’s education
Sometimes parents will do
everything for their child,
except let them be themselves!
Teach the child how to think
and not what to think