What is that Lesson you have learnt this year you want to share with everyone ?

What is that Lesson you have learnt this year you want to share with everyone ?

What is that Lesson you have learnt this year you want to share with everyone ?

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  1. if someone is ignoring you or getting away from you, i know its hard to but please let it go and accept it that the persons gone already because if you keep on running after him you’re breaking yourself in the thought that this might work believe me it won’t so just let it go otherwise it will hurt you even more. its going to hurt you anyways but leaving him before he does won’t be as painful as the realisation that the person left you and you failed even if you tried so hard and that it didn’t work out.
    please accept the fact that he has left and save yourself

  2. Dont take anyone or any experience for granted because in a heartbeat it can change or they can pass away. Tomorrow isnt promised so live each day to the fullest and LOVE them while you have the chance to.make the most of it. Make memories you wont regret. And always remember God is good and your life is a choice and never just a chance. life happens for a reason.

  3. Success comes to those who do not waste time comparing what they are doing with what others are doing; it enters the house of the person who says every day: ‘I will do my best.’

    People who seek only success rarely find it, because success is not an end in itself, but a consequence.

    Obsession doesn’t help at all, it becomes confused as to which path to follow and ends up taking away the pleasure of living.

    The truly rich person is the one who is in contact with the energy of Love every second of his existence.

    You must have a goal in mind, but, as you go along, it costs nothing to stop now and then and enjoy the view around you.

    At such moments, it is important to ask yourself: ‘Are my values still intact?
    ‘Am I trying to please others and do what they expect of me, or am I really convinced that my work is a manifestation of my soul and my enthusiasm?
    ‘Do I want success at any price or do I want to be a successful person because I manage to fill my days with Love?’

    Don’t worry about the answers – you can always correct your course
    Do that in 2017. HAPPY NEW YEAR!

  4. The road to success is filled with people that don’t want you to succeed, they throw road blocks in your path. Refuse to acknowledge your efforts! Remember to maintain your confidence, you know you can do the job. Keep moving and climbing their obstacles, you may have missteps….but you can and will make it!!

  5. That been strong isn’t about physical strength, you can be strong emotionally, spiritually and most importantly mentally. When faced with difficulty – you have the strength to face it.

  6. the lesson I learned this year is that I have the most loving best friend. Actually didn’t learn that, I’ve always known.. 30 years Sissy and still going strong.. Here’s to adversity and overcoming it, together!

  7. I have learnt that living in a way which is authentic and genuine to my emotional needs is vital for long-term inner peace and resolution to my pain… by no way has it been easy and recognising that some of the people you loved are in fact toxic. I have learnt that we have one life to live. I am grateful for mindfully being in this moment of life.

  8. I learned that no matter what happens, you should always grasp opportunities even if they’re way out of your league. You’ll be surprised to see how talented you actually are and what boundaries you set for yourself.

  9. Everything that happens in your life, is for your own highest good, and that problems actually give you so much wisdom and strength but only if you change your perspective towards them

  10. Learned that I am smart enough to “not be careful” anymore who I trust…. because finally, living fully with heart is all I need to live bravely and fully with only one goal, discovery and growth, with the hope that these qualities spill into others as a free, no strings attached gift. Those who dislodge my trust in the end are only hurting themselves and this in and of itself I have no control over.

  11. I have learnt to trust the universe, have faith in prayers and miracles. I have also learnt to journey within myself. By this i discovered myself being content, blissful and happy. Thank you. What was your learning experience???

  12. That making mistakes isn’t a problem, as long as you learn from then and stand up again. And that you got to see it as a life lesson that will help you in the future. And not only the mistakes but also the bad things that happened in your life, see what went wrong and try to accept and change it.

  13. always put yourself first, take care of yourself even if people call you selfish you deserve to treat yourself.
    Don’t let people affect you negatively, let people help you grow, learn from peoples mistakes and learn from yours.
    Always be honest with yourself and to others no matter what.

  14. You get ONE chance in this life. Its YOUR chance, YOUR opportunity. Use it, don’t lose it. We all have the same number of minutes to spend each day. In the end, will you have spent your minutes chasing someone else’s dreams? Choose YOURS…YOU ARE WORTH IT!
    (And I choose mine)

  15. 1. Never rush into love. If it’s meant to be, it will find its way to you.
    2. Patience will teach us some of the greatest lessons in life
    3. Being grateful all the time is the key to staying positive.

  16. It hurts. It hurts a lot when you love a human. When you love that one human that Almighty had created, that you start believing in Him. And there you were being so ignorant Him, until, you see yourself begging to Him for His own creation.
    It hurts. It hurts a lot when you love a human. When you love that one human that Almighty had created, that you start believing in Him. And there you were being so ignorant Him, until, you see yourself begging to Him for His own Creation, the pain is addictive, the name is unrequited. It is a drug. A drug that you will be taking willingly and full knowledge of its destruction. If you are reading this. Love like you are bleeding a nebula of emotions, when? When you will be stabbed by that love storm of catastrophic bliss. Yes bliss. Simply Shattering Bliss. Beware after effects are numbness. Happy New All.

  17. Never u trust or depend on anyone except on God. No one will ever love u the way u expect them to no matter how hard u try, no matter how u love them. The people u value much in life might just be the ones who empty u and make u miserable the most. Learn to let go because not everything is meant to be. Real happiness comes from God alone. Follow him with all ur heart and ur life will be filled with joy, happiness, love and satisfaction. Happy new year to all.

  18. I’ve learned a lot about myself,where I should keep my mouth shut & who to trust ,I’ve learnt to let go of things that’s not meant for me, and I stopped rushing things and stopped blaming myself for everything that I was not able to handle, I decided to slow down things and push myself to break myself from holding me back from the things that I once thought that I can’t do.
    I’ve drained my energy a lot on some people who I won’t be talking or thinking of them the same way as I did, not because I hate them it’s because I chose to move on.
    Advance new year wishes .

  19. Those most closest to you will fail you and not treat you the way you expect even when you give your all. How painful this is I choose to continue to be who I am. I refuse to let anyone change me into someone bitter.

  20. Whatever going to happen will so just say f*** it and live the best you can ! You can lose it all in a moment but as long as you have one’s you love you have it all

  21. It´s good to stand up for yourself. Don´t be quiet and swallow it down. Life is short. So say, what you have to say when people treat you wrong. No matter if it´s your boss, co worker, friend , family member etc. After, you will feel soooo released!

  22. That people really prefer a immoral come up over loyalty, I learned to never again trust no-one even if in my face, and presence they can live and look me in my eye’s and not care to lie to me . I learned that they don’t know what love is and that’s why I am lied to. I learned to never let ANYONE in, to never open up again to some one who will rather watch you fail miserably. Keep the liars away. I learned I could still forgive out of love ally adversaries. . Keep on keeping on.

  23. Forgiveness isn’t just forgetting about what happened. It’s letting go, if the person who hurt you still makes you upset you haven’t forgiven. In order to truly forgive you have to stop blaming people including yourself and just accept it happened. Don’t allow someone wronging you to decimate your character.

  24. This year i learned that all the circumstances change always, life makes big changes.. Between people, how they were and how they’re now.
    That i need to start being responsible with my life. Being wrong its okey. Asking for help its okey. And finally that i have to forgive myself a lot and don’t be so judgemental, give me the space i need to be in peace and calm

  25. In our life we must ready to all obstacles or problems we encounter. We need to be strong enough and make yourself be positive no matter what happen, at the end of the day you can do all the best that you can.

  26. To learn from the worst of yourself and to move forward with the best of who you are. Don’t let your mistakes define you but rather define them in the context of learning and applying them to the better half of yourself!!

    1. Exactly!!! Really making mistakes isn’t wrong. As long as you stand up again and learn from it. We should never blame ourselves. We are humans we got to accept that we make mistakes and that we can change ourselves. Every mistake you make and every time you stand up again you level up in life and learn more about yourself and the world.

  27. Let things go. My happiness depends on how I react to situations. It’s my time I’m spending on being upset over trivial things. I’m learning to just get over things quickly and move forward with a smile and love for people who deserve it.

  28. Don’t change your last name when you get married. It’s a pain in the ass to change it the first time and it’s painful af to change it back when the marriage ends because you have to tell every stranger at every business you just got a divorce. And they expect you to say it without crying.

  29. “You think you are alive
    because you breathe air?
    Shame on you,
    that you are alive in such a limited way.
    Don’t be without Love,
    so you won’t feel dead.
    Die in Love
    and stay alive forever.”

    ― Jalaluddin Rumi <3
    😀

  30. being hurt and not having the courage to get a revenge is not a weakness. you just love them too much that it’s okay for you to be in pain than to cause them pain.

  31. Many people on Facebook don’t know what they’re talking about. The buddhist/new age model of reality is everywhere. Trends here include: lol, lmao, emoticons, memes, “fucks given” memes, “what if I told you” memes, kermit drinking tea memes, calling people “trolls,” “type yes if you agree” posts, tabloid level “news.”

  32. I learned that people will ignore you regardless of how much their attention means to you. I’ve learned that loving someone is not enough. I’ve learned that just because you want someone doesn’t mean that they want you. Also that life is just a series of disappontment and heartaches. I’ve learned that I could lose the will to live. That life is pointless. That everything is redundant. I learned that there’s nothing new under the sun. That all the tragedy that befall anyone has already happened to some other sad fool. Lastly that the good times are done for me. Happy 2016 and hello 2017.

  33. Even if you’re in a relationship/marriage, remember, you’re still an individual and you’re allowed to do the things that you want to do regardless of what your partner/spouse or anyone tells you. You’re an adult; you don’t need permission. Live your life according to your terms, no one else’s. If they truly love you, they’ll love you in such a way that you feel free. You’re partners/spouses after all, not cellmates serving a prison sentence.

  34. no matter how good you are at work or for someone , remember – you can be replaced. And one more thing. No matter how painful your experiences have been , do not close your heart for protection. Leave it open as you might miss something that could make you alive again.

  35. Just because you’ve got in touch with your heart….dont expect the same from anyone else….you know you’ve changed, but if others haven’t changed they, they can only see as far as their heart takes them

  36. Your life decisions will determine your path, so choose wisely. Rely on God’s wisdom. Brave the unknown, never lose hope, and learn every single day. We aren’t meant to find answers to everything so learn to let go. Be patient and kind enough to forgive yourself.

    1. Exactly . And once you put your trust in God’s Hands and follow your faith, you’ll see that everything is going to be alright and that you might even get more than you thought.

  37. I have learned and want to share with others, I would like to do so by example, but it really happened. This year began with me having exactly three people in my life who were narcissistic. I had endured their bull for more years than I care to share, but roughly, one for 16 years, off and on, one for less than three and one for about three years. I being empathic, believed it was what they had gone through, been as a result of hardships, not being loved, being loved too much, the wrong way by their parents, etc. Finally, figured out they were making my depression worse. I was the one suffering trying to maintain a friendship with them. Finally, decided to clean my mental, emotional and physical house! Disconnected and discontinued ALL three relationships eventually. Now, fast forward to recently. Encountered yet another Narcissistic personality. This time, it took a shorter time for me to recognize, realize and discontinue. Less than three weeks! No idea, why I got the Make Up Examination at this end of the year nearly ended. Hopefully, the lesson has been passed, mourning is safely over. No one should sacrifice their own sense, of self, contentment and piece/peace of mind to waste nearly an entire year of what could have been with either themselves or someone else who is not living the Wicked Stepmother role in life; “Mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all?”

  38. The value of love lies in the blind faith and trust on the person. If you don’t trust completely you will never know what it is to love deeply , madly, and truly. Even if it hurts like hell, kill you in the end it’s worth an experience 🙂 it is so powerful and divine.

  39. ~Control ya anger, Only one step from “D”,
    ~Dont get emotionally attached to anyone, except your already dear ones.
    ~Shut up and laugh at that bastard.
    ~Love is no fairytale, its an Fantasy.
    ~Except nothing in return, God will give.
    ~watch your Own Karma.
    ~Never Lose your cool.

    1. Perhaps, beginning to think and believe you are special to yourself! It is the difference between fresh and stale milk or bread.Those who will give you chance to see beyond the expiration date, won’t do so if you already acting and believing you are stale and won’t taste good.

  40. Never argue politics or religion..it’s better to let it be and keep the peace..no one really knows everything in life until they experience it “To err is to be human” I’ve have learned that experienc is the best teacher in life.

  41. I would like share … Please Don’t fall in anybody’s smile..It may be fake.. Before deciding anything just thing a little bit..Just enjoy the colourful life…. Don’t waste a little moment of life….

    1. Funny u say that. My best friend for years and years betrayed me in the worst way and I found out yesterday. I thought we were adults. Friends. Soul sisters. Nope. And just like that….20 yrs of history, nothing but memories of a betraying bestie.

  42. Love your enemy and, forgive them. Your enemy will make you stronger than you have ever been. Thank your enemy for giving you the opportunity to…. learn. Your enemy may not change but – you will. The lesson? Take – No – Shit! Stand – Your – Ground! You are a good person. It is they, who suffer. Have empathy. Your enemy’s suffering, is not – yours.

  43. Everything can be… everything is possible in this life …i changed the direction of my life in only 3 months ..2016 was not easy and will not be easy to be forgotten..cheers!

    1. Well, i was referring to my own issues with pregnancy, especially when I have experienced a miscarriage. and i learned that after all the hard times and failures, perhaps i should relax a bit, don’t push myself too hard, and believe that I’ll get pregnant again when the time comes.so in the mean time, i’ll just live my life to the fullest with my family, continue praying n hoping for my wishes to come true, and try again without putting too much hope so i won’t get hurt. The post is about the lesson learned. So this is one of those that i experienced myself. So please be more sensitive towards others, because it is a sensitive life experience that not everyone can face with. It hurts.

    2. Well, i was referring to my own issues with pregnancy, especially when I have experienced a miscarriage. and i learned that after all the hard times and failures, perhaps i should relax a bit, don’t push myself too hard, and believe that I’ll get pregnant again when the time comes.so in the mean time, i’ll just live my life to the fullest with my family, continue praying n hoping for my wishes to come true, and try again without putting too much hope so i won’t get hurt. The post is about the lesson learned, and this is one of those that i experienced myself. So kindly be more sensitive towards others, please, because it is a sensitive life experience that not everyone can face with. It hurts.

    3. Being a sensitive soul in a harsh world can be a difficult art to master. But I am sure the person wasn’t intentionally trying to hurt you. I wish the best for you and your future child.

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