When it comes to love, weโve all got some self-sabotaging habits that prevent us from finding that special someone. Do you want to find out yours? The following article elaborates on whatโs keeping zodiacs away from love!
Love is a tricky thing. A lot of times we take it personally, but to be honest, itโs ALWAYS been that way. You can ask your parents, your grandparents, and generations coming up โ theyโll all say the same thing:
Love is a LOT of freakinโ work.
Itโs messy as hell โ that you can always count on. Itโs complicated, itโs difficult, itโs pulling-out-your-hair frustrating โฆ but itโs SO worth it. For every relationship struggle you have, there are a million incredible moments that make you truly appreciate being in love.
Donโt give up on it just because it sucks sometimes. Trust me, youโll be glad you didnโt.
Remember, we all have our flaws. I mean come on, nobody is ever going to be perfect. So, we have to consider our own setbacks when searching for love. Weโre all different, each one of us having a particular flaw that keeps us from going all in with somebody we think we may love. Knowing the biggest thing that holds you back from diving into that love will help you immensely.
Luckily, we can help you figure out just what that #1 thing is thatโs preventing you from falling for your true love. Just try taking a look at your zodiac sign to see what could be holding YOU back. The stars and astrology can tell us a lot more about ourselves than you might think.
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So find your horoscope by birthday below and get back on track to finding the love you deserve.
The 1 Thing Keeping Zodiacs Away From Love: What Is Keeping You From True Love?
Astrology reveals what is keeping you away from love.
1. Aries (March 21-April 19)
You can be WAY too short-tempered.
Okay Aries, take a chill pill. Count to ten, do some breathing exercises, whatever it takes. If you spend all your time getting angry, how will you ever truly be happy? Next time you feel like getting upset, take a step back and look at all the great things in your life โ including love.
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2. Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Youโre too dang stubborn.
Quit being so stuck in your ways. Branch out, take a step out of your comfort zone. I know it can be easy to get caught up in your pride, but that doesnโt mean you have to be so stubborn about everything all the time. Donโt be afraid to admit when youโre wrong and when your partner is right, itโll go a long way.
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3. Gemini (May 21-June 20)
Your knack for indecisiveness.
I donโt care what the decision is youโre making, but for the love of God just make it! You are notorious for being the worst decision-maker ever and you need to cut that out if you ever plan on finding love. How can you ever choose a lover if you canโt make a decision to save your life?
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4. Cancer (June 21-July 22)
Your insecurity and constant suspicions.
If you ever want to make a relationship work, you need to be more trusting. You canโt be going around making accusations just because you have certain insecurities. You have to trust that the one you love, loves you, too.
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5. Leo (July 23-August 22)
Your tendency to be too self-involved.
Yeah, I know, youโre pretty awesome. BUT that doesnโt mean the world has to revolve around you 24/7. If you canโt get out of your own head long enough, how do you ever expect to find someone to share your best self with?
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Leo, The Untamed Fire Sign
6. Virgo (August 23-September 22)
Your innate shyness.
Open yourself up! If you go your whole life buried in yourself because youโre afraid to put yourself out there and meet new people, then youโll never find the one youโre meant to be with. Youโre full of life and love โ prove it.
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7. Libra (September 23-October 22)
Your constant self-pity.
Youโre not doing yourself any favors by playing the role of the martyr all the time. Donโt get caught up in playing the โpoor meโ card. Itโs not a very attractive quality and certainly isnโt one to fuel a relationship. It will only hurt your chances of finding love.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Libra, The Idealistic Air Sign
8. Scorpio (October 23-November 21)
Youโre entirely too distrustful.
It gets annoying after a while, constantly having to reassure someone that theyโre being faithful or that they love you. Donโt get caught up in your distrusting ways, itโs only going to push people away. Help yourself out and throw that skepticism out the window!
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Scorpio, The Ambitious Water Sign
9. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21)
You are impatient as hell.
Slow your roll there Sagittarius. All good things come to those who wait. Itโs true in life and itโs true in love. Your impatience hinders your ability to find love and until you put that to rest, youโll keep moving on to something โ or someone โ else.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Sagittarius, The Fiery Archer Sign
10. Capricorn (December 22-January 19)
You always expect the worst out of people.
Not everyone is bad news. Take a chance on someone, and more than likely you wonโt regret it. Even if you have been burned a few times, keep the past in the past. Itโs not worth losing out on love.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Capricorn, The Disciplined Soul
11. Aquarius (January 20-February 18)
You jump at the chance to run from expressing your emotions.
You canโt have a solid relationship without ever confessing your feelings to someone. Opening your heart up to someone is scary as hell for you, but itโs necessary for any real relationship. You need to accept your emotions and express yourself to the one you love.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Aquarius, The Progressive Air Sign
12. Pisces (February 19-March 20)
You are all too fearful of any uncharted territory.
Try something new! Meet someone new! Donโt be afraid to branch out every now and then. Youโd be surprised by where life will take you and who itโll bring into your life. New is exciting and love is worth the risk.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Pisces, The Gentle Water Sign
Written byย Madelyn Rennie Originally appeared on Yourtango.com
While there are many things that can make it challenging for you to find your true love, if you really want someone in your life, you will work on yourself to make things better!
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So, whatโs that one thing keeping you from true love according to your zodiac? Let us know in the comments down below!
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