Have you ever thought that the thing that turns you off about a partner has something to do with your zodiac sign? Find out your worst pet peeve in a relationship, according to your zodiac sign.
Our likes and dislikes have a strong impact on our romantic relationships. Our personal preferences and choices not only influence the type of partner we pick but also determine what we will agree or disagree to put up with.
Whereas our life situations, ideologies, values, and principles vary from each other, our zodiac signs play a crucial role in binding us into groups that have some specific deal breakers, when it comes to love and relationships.
Curious to know more about the 12 zodiac signs’ biggest pet peeve in a relationship? You’re at the right place.
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The Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship, Based On The 12 Zodiac Signs
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
Aries, you would want a zealous lover who would incessantly pursue you, against all odds. Your partner must be deeply passionate about you and think that you hung the moon and the stars! You wouldn’t mind a wee bit of possessiveness or obsession on their part, however, as soon as they get too clingy for your comfort, you run for the hills. Your personal space is very important to you and if your partner encroaches on it, you start feeling smothered. Your special someone has to give you enough space to be yourself and never interfere with your life choices.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To lose your individuality
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
You crave a meaningful relationship that can stand the test of time. You want to have someone in your life who will be there for you through thick and thin. They must be devoted and caring toward you, making your strong relationship the subject of envy for everyone else. But it takes two to tango, isn’t it Taurus? You cannot expect someone to bend over backward and do all the work to keep the relationship going, while you just sit tight. To make a relationship successful, both parties have to contribute equally but you dread making any kind of adjustment or compromising in any way.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To get out of your comfort zone and sacrifice for your relationship
3. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini, what you seek is movie romance. Sizzling chemistry, intense passion, over-the-top display of affection, all these things make you tick. You want your significant other to be the one who understands you and loves you the same. You two must complement each other and always be in sync.
While there’s nothing wrong with expecting vibrant chemistry between you and your lover, what puts your relationship in jeopardy is your fear of commitment. You don’t want to be tied down with one person and so you draw the line when someone pops the question or expects you to go down on your knee.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To get committed with one person
4. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer, you are a sensitive soul and it mustn’t come as a surprise that you look for a partner who will be warm and sensitive towards you and your needs. For you, an ideal partner is someone who will be nurturing and attentive. They must be value sentiment and must always respect your need for support and empathy. No doubt, you will be ready to offer them the same, and in every aspect.
However, there’s one issue. It really bugs you if your partner wants to get to know you. You are a guarded person who keeps their feelings closed off, lest they get hurt. So, when your loved one asks too many questions about your life, you get squirmy and abort the relationship.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To be vulnerable and open up your heart
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You are not a superficial person Leo, but you too will agree that good looks matter to you when you are looking for a romantic partner. You are a bit of a perfectionist and tend to choose the hottest and the most popular ones from the dating pool. You won’t even mind if your partner has a long list of admirers. This only means that you have chosen a real winner. You want to be a power couple and expect your partner to also match your personality and style.
Match, not exceed…and there lies the catch. You will feel threatened if your partner is more attractive than you or has a longer list of suitors than yours, and is a better charmer than you.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To get outshined by your partner
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgo, you value culture and class. You will fall for a person who has vast knowledge, refined taste, and rich heritage. You would want to talk to your man or girl about everything under the sun and feel enriched in their company.
You will have no qualms learning about stuff from them but you will never tolerate it if they don’t listen to you about things that matter to you. Even when they know that something you are saying is not right, they must humor you. You can get pretty rigid about certain things and if they don’t agree with you or insist on their way of doing things, that’s pretty much it for your relationship.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To get snubbed by your partner
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You are still living in your dream world Libra. You have not fully outgrown your childhood fantasies and still looking for a prince charming or a cinderella. Your idea of romance is still pretty juvenile, leaning mostly on poetry, love songs, roses, and all that mushy stuff. Maybe it’s a good thing that life has not yet knocked those rose-tinted glasses off your eyes, and has let you remain an innocent and pure thing. But sadly, life is not that kind to everyone.
So, when you end up with a person who has had more than their fair share of trouble, your childlike enthusiasm doesn’t clash with their logical and analytical approach. And you choose your idea of romance over the real thing.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To give up your idea of a fairytale romance
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpio, you expect complete loyalty and devotion from your partner. You will also be ready to fully commit to your partner and reciprocate their affection. You want a solid relationship that will be based on trust and faithfulness. However, you keep struggling to share your innermost feelings and secrets with your significant other. Something always keeps you from opening up and when you are deeply engrossed in your thoughts, you seem miles away from your partner. When they request you to share your thoughts and feelings, you feel pestered and hit the brakes on your relationship.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To come out of your shell and share your feelings
9. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sag, you are a bit unpredictable when it comes to choosing a partner. You will like someone who will be open with you, share every little detail about their day, and you would do the same for them. But, you will avoid any deep conversation regarding the future of your relationship, how you feel about each other, or what you mean to one another. Whenever someone initiates a dialogue with you on these topics, you feel you are being trapped in your relationship, and decide to end things prematurely.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To deal with emotions and to have “the talk”
10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
You say that you are not single by choice and that romance always eludes you. But do you really think that is the case here, Capricorn? If you want someone to sweep you off your feet, you have to give your dating life a chance. You want love to find you and that’s completely fine, but how’s that going to happen if you keep prioritizing your work, your friends, and yourself above everything else? And when you do find a partner, you keep them on the back burner, owing to your busy schedule. So when your relationship ultimately goes kaput, you have no one to blame other than yourself.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To prioritize romance over your personal needs
11. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
You are a bit conceited Aquarius. You want everything to be according to your requirement, and this extends to your preference for romantic partners. You expect them to cater to your needs and never think about their own. They should be at your beck and call, all the time, and make themselves scarce when you want some “me time”. Surprisingly enough, you shudder thinking about doing the same for them. It is your worst nightmare to live your life according to someone else, even when you want them to always comply with you.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To lose the upper hand
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You are a sapiosexual who finds an intelligent and well-read person to be most attractive. Stimulating conversation with your person of interest is something that you treasure. You find deep soul-stirring conversations to be no less passionate than a steaming make-out session. You admire your partner and don’t mind being in awe. But that does not mean they can underestimate you or make you feel inferior in any way. The moment your partner resorts to splaining, you bid them adieu for good.
Your Biggest Pet Peeve In A Relationship
To feel humiliated by your partner
There’s More To This Than Meets The Eyes
What we allow and refuse to allow tells a lot about our personality and life. The things that creep us out are deeply connected to our subconscious and past life. If you are wondering why certain things trigger or upset you, go inwards and dig out those past trauma that can significantly alter the course of your love life.
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