“Why do I always end up alone?” Have you asked yourself this question a zillion times? If your relationship doesn’t survive till a third or fourth date, this blog is for you!
You are always told that you have a beautiful and dynamic personality, but somehow you end up alone. The Fault In Our Stars- Quite Literally.
The people around you are enamored by the quirks in your character but your sharp comebacks and flaws often end up turning them off when they are in a relationship with you.
In situations like these, astrology comes a bit too handy. It can tell you a lot about your personality and how it’s going to affect your relationships.
We have compiled your major zodiac weaknesses which play a major role in shaping your personality and may point out some of the reasons why you end up alone.
Whether you choose solitude intentionally or unintentionally, we are here to help you find out the answer to your question “Why do I end up alone?”, based on your zodiac traits.
Why Do I Always End Up Alone?
1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You can be too much to take sometimes.
Arieans are free-spirited and quite overbearing. Your aggressive nature only makes you hard to be with, despite your energy and fiery personality.
An Aries can be really stubborn and sometimes unnecessarily blunt which hurts other’s feelings. You are difficult to deal with. Your nature makes you get into confrontations often.
You end up alone because your partner soon realizes they have bitten off more than they can chew.
2. Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
You can be really needy and clingy.
You’re the careful one, analytic and guarded. You want to know exactly what the deal is and what makes you rigorous and interrogative.
You are quite a stubborn fellow, and you don’t know (or don’t want to know) when it’s time to let go of a relationship.
Once your initial outward detachment wears off, your partner is affronted with your insecurity and clinginess in all its glory, which often makes them struggle to cut themselves away from you.
3. Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
You suffer from some serious self-doubt.
Indecisive and with a duality inherent to your sign, you’re continually oscillating between choices, questioning your worth, and when in a relationship, your nervous and fidgety version surfaces.
Gemini, your double-minded nature makes you refuse to call your partner your significant other.
This brazen and insecure side of yours scares your partner, and your perceptual flitting from one decision to another can get on their nerves and cause them to detach themselves from you, despite your charisma and your flair for speech and vocabulary.
Read: Ways Each Zodiac Sign Keeps You Around Without Committing To You
4. Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
You are extremely insecure.
Cancerians are extremely sensitive about everything. You tend to be very suspicious and jealous due to your pessimistic nature.
Your nagging insecurities and inferiority complex can make you difficult to deal with. Your constant need for reassurance from your partner about their love for you and your need to continually assuage your feelings of worthlessness makes you a handful.
This makes most people wary of being in a relationship with you, and you often find yourself alone and lonely.
5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You are too egoistic and self-absorbed.
Your egotistical self often cannot see past itself. You cannot stand not being in the limelight and that sometimes makes you blind to your partner’s characteristics.
While Leo is one of the most loved signs of the Zodiac for the quirks in their character, this can end up being a huge no-no for those in long-term relationships with them.
Your obsession with yourself and inability to understand your mistakes often drive your partners away.
6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You have an unhealthy obsession with perfectionism.
The perfectionists of all the Zodiacs, Virgos are always worried about and overly critical of things that do not match their vision and standard of perfection.
External validation and opinions matter a lot to you and your super-high standards often make your partners unsure of themselves.
They feel lesser and insufficient as you are too difficult to please. Your obsession with fixing things and people and trying to clean up other people’s lives also often makes your partner move away.
7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You suffer from a serious case of self-pity.
Libra is known to be the most indecisive sign. You are a seeker of exceptional things but rarely do you see yourself as exceptional and that puts you into an eggshell.
You’re always too busy pitying yourself to fully and openly love your partner. Your attitude of searching for ulterior motives and questioning people’s intentions can be frustrating and demeaning and makes you less desirable to be in a relationship with.
While you’re so involving warding off the world from hurting you, you turn out to be your biggest enemy when it comes to love.
8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
You hold yourself back too much.
You’re the secret keeper, the suspicious one. You feel vulnerable and emotionally unsafe to your partner and you hold yourself back from them to avoid this feeling.
You don’t easily give out your trust and that sometimes makes it impossible to get close to you. Your over-secretiveness is your biggest flaw when it comes to relationships.
Your continual holding yourself back creates an insurmountable wall between you and your partner, making you distant and forcing them to drift away.
9. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
You never focus on stability.
The traveler of the Zodiac, you’re always on the move, unable to settle in one place for too long without becoming bored and restless.
This transience while being your most defining trait can make it difficult for partners to rely on you, fearing your footloose nature will lead you to desert them in times of need.
Denied a sort of stability that is necessary for a relationship, your partner is likely to move away than deal with this uncertainty. And that’s it, you end up alone.
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10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
You focus too much on your work.
The workaholic sign, your work means everything to you and receives top priority in your life. You are the most practical and possess a pessimistic view of relationships.
This makes your partner feel neglected and resentful. Your refusal to ever give them that confidence that you would choose them over your work if the need arises makes them walk away from you.
11. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
You are very distant.
Your reserved nature and emotionless exterior make it very difficult for you to reach out to people and vice versa. Aquarians are the loners, they really like their personal space and flourish in their own territories.
You found yourself restricted when you are in a committed relationship. Your independent personality makes it challenging for your partner to get to know you on a deeper level.
12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You are over-emotional.
Your urge to squeeze every ounce of emotion and effort out of a relationship makes it taxing to love you.
You make your partner feel unworthy and insufficient and ultimately make them leave. Pisces, your dreaminess is holding you back from seeing the reality of your relationship.
You make a fairly land in your imagination and you react destructively once you understand that your fantasy does not truly match the verisimilitude of life.
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So, did you find the answer to your question “Why do I always end up alone?” Comment and let us know!
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