Loving the wrong person
Let our scars fall in love.
โGalway KinnellWeโre all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if youโve been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect thereโs no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isnโt until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problemsโthe ones that make you truly who you areโthat weโre ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what youโre looking for. Youโre looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the right wrong personโsomeone you lovingly gaze upon and think, โThis is the problem I want to have.โ
I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.
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