When a man loves you, there are certain things he will do, which he will only do for you. When he wants a relationship with you, he will be different, and trust me, you will know how. Letโs find out what are the things a man does when he loves you and wants to be with you.
Are you dating for quite sometime and still not sure if a man wants a relationship with you?
It doesnโt matter if youโre newly dating or youโve been dating for a while. Youโre probably reading this because youโre wondering what men think and if the man youโve been giving your precious time and energy to wants a relationship with you.
You might wonder, do I invest more in this man or do I lean back and see what he does?
Do I let a man know my feelings or let him take the lead?
Does he love meย or is he waiting for someone else to come along?
When a man is wholeheartedly invested in you, there are certain things that he will do that are clear signs that heโs into you in a big way which answers those nagging questions that keep running around in your head.
By the end of this, you wonโt be turning in your bed overthinking his actions.
Itโs going to be very clear how to tell if a guy likes you,ย reallyย likes you or ifย heโs a playerย with no intention of committing to you.
Here are four things a man does if he wants a relationship with you.
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4 Things A Man Does If He Wants A Relationship With You
1. The invisible thread.
The first clear sign that his heart is a hook, line, and sinker caught on you is what I call The Invisible Thread.
You could both be at a party talking to other people even in separate places or together but somehow, it feels like youโre still connected, tethered in some way.
Youโre both linked by a thread thatโs exclusively visible to you.
Whether itโs the way that he looks at you from across the room or when heโs out and about doing other things travelling for work or busy with his kids, he reaches out regularly enough so that you still feel connected.
Also, a man whoโs really into you and values connection and intimacy wonโt just be physically present on a date, heโll be 100 per cent with you.
He will pay attention. Heย wonโtย just be nodding during your conversations while his eyes are roving around like a lifeguard at the beach.
2. He wants to know who you are.
Heโll make an effort to ask meaningful questions because he wants to know you better.
Itโs a sign a man appreciates your true qualities inside and out.
A man whoย isnโtย emotionally investedย in you wouldnโt even bother to talk about the future, ask about your opinions, what your dreams are or even what you did yesterday.
He mightย justย want to get naked with you.
But a man whoโs authentically interested in you will want to talk to you, experience things together and share both of your highs and lows.
Forget theย guy who disappearsย at a vital point in his life (or yours) to be alone or who avoids helping you.
Itโs like saying youโre important to himโ but only up to this pointโ only when itโs fun or when it suits him.
A man whoโs invested in a committed relationship wonโt run when life gets more complicated because he will know curve balls are part of life and relationships and he wants to ride the curve balls with you.
3. He wants to see you often.
He wants to see you again and again. If heโs really into you long term, nothing in the world is going to stop him from wanting to see you again.
Men generally arenโt complex creatures. Their actions arenโt too subtle to interpret.
Yes, they can be cagey and cautious but as that fog clears up, bottom line is he just wants to be with you again and as soon as possible. He will find ways to make it happen.
He might even drop by your work because he just happened to be in the area.
To help you with this, I made aย must-see videoย where I explainย theย secret signal a man needs to open his heart and commit to you. What I share may certainly surprise you.
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4. He will be your best friend and ally.
He will be your comrade. Not only is he attracted to you, he wants to be your best friend and ally.
He will go to war for you.
He will not want to be at warย withย you.
Iโve been in relationships with men who had no interest in being my comrade.
They were so ego-driven or so detached from the relationship that it almost never ran smoothly.
There was always a bump in the road.
My first relationship wasnโt like this.
It was easy and kind, though after struggling with some men in future relationships, I learned pretty quickly that men who really want you are invested in unity.
They will be there for you.
While you may not always agree on things, he will try his hardest to find common ground with you so that you can both feel comfortable and resolved.
He wonโt give you unrelenting attitude and the ego treatment because he cherishes you and the relationship more than his ego.
Itโs all about the willingness to understand each other because you both value partnership.
So there you have it.
The four things a man does if he wants a relationship with you.
If youโve got a man in your life whoโs not doing these things, then Iโm very sorry to say heโs either just not that invested or heโs simply incapable of true intimacy.
It doesnโt matterย whyย heโs not fully committed to you, whether heโs insecure, has emotional issues, isย emotionally unavailableย or just waiting for someone better.
Not that there is someone better than you, though heโs thinking thereโs someone else out there who will be more aligned with him in some way.
Then thatโs 100 per cent OK.
Let him go.
I want you to be with a man who prioritizes you, who wants to know you, who loves to spend time with you, who communicates with you regularly.
This is what an emotionally connected loving relationship looks like and this is how to know if he wants a serious relationship with beautiful, gorgeous you.
Even if itโs the early stages of dating, it shouldnโt feel like a battle. It should largely flow. If a healthy relationship with a man isย notย flowing, donโt try to force it. Focus on what you really want.
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If heโs not working with you, then know there really are many more men to meet who will be what youโre looking for. There is no such thing as one man on the planet for you. There are plenty.
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Find out exactly what good men want to see before they will take the next step and commit forever.
Written by Nadine Piat
Originally appeared in Attract The One
Republished with permission.
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