So, you’ve finally mustered up the courage to ask out that special someone, and—drumroll, please—they said yes! Now comes the hard part: planning the perfect first date that will eventually help you score the next one. We know how much pressure you may feel there is riding on that first, nervous encounter, but there are some date tips that can ensure it’s as smooth sailing as possible.
7 first date tips for a second date
No more awkward silences, cringe-worthy moments, or wondering if you should go for the handshake, hug, or high-five. We’ve got the lowdown on everything you need to make sparks fly and leave a lasting impression. Here are seven date tips to have a successful first date:
1. Location, location , location
When choosing the spot for your first date, go for a place that’s relaxed and comfortable. Think of somewhere where you both can chat easily, like a cozy café or a laid-back restaurant. Avoid places that are too loud or crowded—nothing kills a conversation like struggling to hear each other over music. The goal is to pick a spot where you can be yourselves and enjoy each other’s company without distractions.
2. Please do not be late
Being on time for your first date is a simple but crucial move. It shows that you respect the other person’s time and are genuinely interested in getting to know them. Plus, it gives a good first impression and sets a positive tone for the date. If you’re running late, just send a quick message to let them know. It’s all about being courteous and making a good start.
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3. Wear what feels (and looks) good.
First date is all about being comfortable and making your date comfortable. Do not you out of your way to splurge on new clothes or wear something out of your comfort zone. But that is not to say you show up under-dressed. Wear something nice and relaxed, something that feels like “you.” And hey, a quick check for wrinkles and a fresh, clean look will always go a long way.
4. Give thoughtful compliments
Compliments can really brighten up a first date, but it’s all about balance and respect. Saying something like, “Hey, you look great!” when you first see them is awesome. But creepily staring them up and down while you say it? Not so cool.
Appreciate their unique style and interests. Like, “Those tattoos are cool—what do they mean to you?” or “I really dig your sweater/shoes/hat.” It shows you’re paying attention to what matters to them. And remember, too many compliments can overwhelm, so mix it up—compliment their humor, intelligence, or taste in music to keep things interesting!
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5. Put. Down. Your. Phone.
Do I even need to say how disrespectful it is to be on your phone while you are on a date. You attention should be on the person you are out with, not on your phone. If it is really that urgent, just excuse yourself briefly and keep it quick. Make sure you give your date your undivided attention the entire them. Instead of spending time checking your phone, ask them questions and get to know them better.
6. Get them to talk about something they are passionate about
When someone shows real interest in what matters to us, it can make a huge difference. So if you see your date’s face light up when they talk about their love for gardening, their quirky hobby of collecting vintage records, or their recent trip to Japan, keep the conversation going.
Asking them more about these topics not only shows you’re genuinely interested, but it also makes you a standout date—and increases your chances of landing that second one!
7. Put their comfort first
For a successful first date, making your date feel safe and comfortable should be your top priority. Choose a well-lit, reputable venue and avoid putting pressure on them by checking if they’re comfortable with your plans. If you suggest a movie, be open to other ideas if they prefer something different.
Additionally, offer them the option to change plans or leave early if they need to, ensuring they feel empowered and in control of the situation.
Final Thoughts
Bagging a first date is often easy, the hard part is scoring the second one. It is okay to feel nervous and worried about making a good first impression, but try to be confident and comfortable. Do not try to pretend to be someone you are not or sell yourself short. Just be you. Good luck! And let us know you first date story in the comments below!
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):
How can I be more attractive on a first date?
To be more attractive on a first date, be confident, show genuine interest, listen actively. Dress well for the occasion, smile, and be yourself to create a lasting impression.
What are dating etiquettes for a first date?
For a first date, be punctual, dress appropriately, and engage politely. Focus on your date without distractions, offer to pay for the meal and respect their boundaries.
What are some good conversation starters?
Ask open-ended questions about their interests, such as “What do you like to do in your free time?” or “Have you seen any good movies lately?” Sharing a bit about yourself can also help keep the conversation flowing.
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