Some Facts on Emotional Manipulators โ
- They canโt be trusted.
No matter what you say, theyโll turn the situation around so they seem like theyโre a victim, and have been unfairly judged.
- They leave you feeling crazy, or mixed up and confused.
Theyโll twist your words and motives so you feel misunderstood,
and they rationalize their actions so you seem unreasonable.
- Theyโre great at making you feel guilty or โbadโ.
Nothing you can do or say is ever right to them. No matter what you try, you know it always will be wrong.
- They are passive-aggressive.
Theyโll smile at your face and theyโll stab you in the back. Theyโll gladly talk about you and pass along mean gossip.
- They have the ability to manipulate the emotional climate in a group.
So, if theyโre feeling happy, and life is going well, theyโre the life of the party and everyone must smile. But when their life is tough then theyโll moan, groan and complain, and theyโll make sure everybody feels miserable as well.
- They are self-absorbed and a law unto themselves.
Life is always by their rules, and everything revolves around them. Theyโre not accountable, and they will always please themselves.
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