Are you dating a jerk or just a man behaving badly?ย If you donโt know it yet, then note thatย these bad habits are more than just quirks. Here are a few signs youโre dating a jerk to help you know for sure.
When we first start dating someone, they are usually on their best behavior. They show you the positive sides of themselves, rather than the hidden, nitty-gritty qualities that would send you right out the door.
But over time, once you start falling in love with someone, you may notice that out if heโs a jerk or just misunderstood?
Trying to figure out if heโs a jerk or just misunderstood? Hereโs the deal.
Here Are 4 Signs Youโre Dating A Jerk
1. You start wondering if heโs an assh*le.
Maybe he refers to women as โb*tchesโ and โhoesโ in front of you. Or perhaps he didnโt call after your first date, even though he gave off all the signs that he was really into you.
2. You go to bed thinking heโs an assh*le.
He might leave you wondering if he cares about you or just wants to have sex with you. It might be hard to tell, especially when the only time he calls is at 1:30 AM after a night at the club.
3. You drink your coffee in the morning and think, โYeah, heโs an assh*le.โ
When you go out, he treats service personnel like they are his personal slaves. And the conversation over dinner is usually about how his ex was a total b*tch for no reason at all.
4. A friend calls you and asks how things are. Your response is, โHeโs an assh*le.โ
One of the biggest signs youโre in love with an assh*le is how you talk to your friends about him. He might have you convinced that YOU are the assh*le, or that he treats you like sh*t because you (like all assh*les) need to be treated as such. Creating doubt and causing you to think youโre the problem is what assh*les do.
Bottom line: If you think heโs an assh*le, then you already know what to do.
Related: 30 Signs You Are Dating A Fuckboy
The fact that youโre reading this shows that you donโt want to believe it and that youโre looking for some kind of external validation to make your decision.
Do yourself a favor and dump him!
So this was how to know if youโre dating a jerk. Did these signs resonate with you? Share your thoughts in the comments below!
Written Byย Charles J. Orlando
Originally Appeared On theproblemismen.com
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