I have outgrown many things. I have outgrown relatives who gladly offer criticism but not support. I have outgrown my need to meet my familyโs unrealistic expectations of me. I have outgrown girls who wear masks and secretly rejoice at my misfortunes. I have outgrown shrinking myself for boys who are intimidated by my intelligence and outspoken nature. I have outgrown friends who cannot celebrate my accomplishments. I have outgrown people who conveniently disappear whenever life gets a little dark. I have outgrown those who take pleasure in gossiping and spreading negativity. I have outgrown dull, meaningless conversations that feel forced. I have outgrown those who donโt take a stand against ignorance and injustice. I have outgrown trying to please everyone. I have outgrown society constantly telling me Iโm not beautiful, smart or worthy enough. I have outgrown my tendency to fill my mind with self-doubt and insecurity. I have outgrown trying to find reasons not to love myself. I have outgrown anything and anyone that does not enrich the essence of my soul. I have outgrown many thingsโand Iโve never felt freer.
โ Chanda Kaushik
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