Few words are more important to hear when you’re struggling than “I understand.”
Unfortunately, these words are also incredibly difficult to hear and believe, especially when you’re in such a deep state of grief as can follow the death of a loved one.
On the one hand, you may feel so cut off from people or else self-isolate yourself to such an extent that you simply don’t hear these words because you aren’t talking to anyone. On the other hand, you may have plenty of people trying to tell you that they “understand,” but you simply cannot believe it given what you’ve experienced.
This is why support groups are so important. They can provide something that you simply cannot get elsewhere – the feeling that you’re talking to someone who really might be able to understand because they have shared a similar experience.
Besides that baseline, here are four key benefits to dealing with grief via support groups.
1. The Social Factor
When you lose a loved one, it can be hard to see what the point is of talking to anyone when no one will understand. As mentioned, a support group can help combat that by providing you with people who have shared similar experiences, a clear example being this bereavement support group for widows.
This is essential, because far too often people choose or slip into self-isolating themselves following grief. The desire to speak to others is gone, and with it, any desire to interact with others socially.
However, whether you’re the most extroverted “people person” or normally-shy individual, humans are social creatures, and at least some social interaction is important for good mental health. Cutting yourself off totally isn’t the answer. Support groups can provide a safe space in which you can strive to regain some sense of community and reconnection.
2. An Element of Routine
Routines for work, hygiene, and personal wellbeing can also slip during times of deep grief. You may feel aimless, as though each day is meaningless. Attending support groups regularly can give you at least one activity around which to structure a routine, which in turn can help you rebuild a sense of normalcy.
3. Being Constructive
Attending support groups is likewise a positive action toward recovery. One of the causes of that aforementioned sense of meaninglessness is feeling as though nothing you do matters. By attending support groups and taking part in discussions and group healing activities with them, you can take positive constructive steps toward creating a sense of meaning in your life again.
4. Personalized Assistance
For as helpful as articles like these and other grief therapy articles can be, there is only so much they can be tailored to personal experiences. One reason support groups work so well is because as people get to know one another, they are able to make personalized, specialized suggestions to help one another.
Hopefully, people in your support group will have ways of helping you work through your grief, while you may be able to help them as well. This exchange can be constructive and positive for both sides, providing a deeper and more personalized type of assistance than isolated articles ever can.
In these ways, a grief support group can help you hear those all-important words, “I understand,” and build from there as you rebuild your life.
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John Black is the Lead Content Marketer at Globex Outreach, mainly responsible for guest posting services. He creates content strategies that help clients connect with their target audience and build strong relationships.
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