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Women Who Have Been Hurt Too Many Times Unknowingly Do These 12 Things

Women Who Have Been Hurt Too Many Times Unknowingly Do These 12 Things

Heartbreak changes us and affects us. We grow a different perspective of love and become extra cautious. We behave differently, we act differently and we react differently and all these changes are evident from our actions. We start doing the things we do unknowingly but the reason behind the changes is nothing but the pain men we dated put us through.

These are the 12 ways in which girls show how they are sick of all of it.

1. We Doubt Everything:

We doubt the intentions of the guy who shows interest in us. Is he in it for sex or is he just bored? We never really think about the possibility of him being serious about us because that is how much we have been let down in the past. We assume things (wrong, most of them) about men who maybe genuinely interested in us.

2. We Never Have Anything Good To Say:

Even if a guy is seemingly perfect, we are always looking for a catch to save ourselves from trouble. Even when our friends date a good guy, we want to look for bad things about him as much as we want to be happy for our friends. All in all, cheating and leaving men made us paranoid and now we are never really fully satisfied.

3. We Accept Sadness:

All the heartbreaks and ignorant behavior of men we loved has left us perpetually sad. We don’t allow happiness to set camp in our minds and bodies anymore and are comparatively better at coping with sadness than we used to be before all the heartbreaks. We accept sadness and keep it like it is meant to be for us.

4. Romance Looks Funny To Us:

Romantic movies become crappy and couples kissing on roadside become stupid for us. And when a guy says something romantic to us like “You are so beautiful I can look at you forever” we can’t help but reply with “Yeah, right” and chuckle. In short, our love lives start becoming hopelessly risky.

5. Our Secrets Are Ours:

We can stop trusting people and keep some secrets to ourselves only. Expectations and then disappointments have left us so hopeless of any meaningful relations that we decide to keep some things to ourselves so that no one is able to use it against us. You can never really know everything about people who have had their heart-broken one too many times.

6. We Crush Big Time:

All that is interesting about our love life now is our crush on men we cannot get. They are mostly celebrities or athletes who we know are out of our league. We mostly crush on them because we know that we will never be with them and that is one good way to stay away from getting our hearts broken again.

7. We Play And Ruin:

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  1. nope lol. I think they have totally gotten the label wrong here. This is for pessimists who love to wallow in self pity or perhaps borderline personality disorder in the least it is the Victim Mentality. Whole other kinda person. too distracted to think enough to put the proper sub type to this one but it’s off, way off, in its title. If you actually Learn from your mistakes and accept them as what they are-yours-you move on, you’re wiser but you’re not closed off acting like the world is out to get you. Blaming other people as the source absolves you from changing anything you do and you can just be lazy and miserable blaming the world for it rather than your own choices.

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