Why We Drink: The Truth About Our Alcohol Obsession

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Drinking culture has become so ingrained in our society these days, that imagining any celebration or social event with alcohol consumption is almost impossible. This article is going to discuss the truth of alcohol obsession, why we drink and drinking culture in general.

KEY POINTS

  • Mediaโ€™s glamorization of alcohol shapes societal drinking norms.
  • Alcoholโ€™s โ€œspecialโ€ role in celebrations may be more a habit than truth.
  • Studies link alcohol portrayal in media to youth and to joy.
  • For many, sobriety offers a secret pathway to a vibrant life beyond the buzz.

Have you ever thought that youโ€™d never be able to celebrate a special day without alcohol? In our society, alcohol seems to be the go-to for nearly every occasion. The idea of a booze-free celebration could almost seem unthinkableโ€”or at least it was for me, for a long time.

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Understanding Alcohol Obsession

But as I entered my third year of sobriety, I started to wonder: How exactly does booze make a special day special?

โ€œItโ€™s my birthdayโ€”letโ€™s go out to have some drinks,โ€ I used to say each year. But you see, I also said the same thing about almost everything:

  • โ€œItโ€™s Friday; letโ€™s go out to have some drinks.โ€
  • โ€œWhat nice weatherโ€”letโ€™s go out to have some drinks.โ€
  • โ€œIโ€™m happy/bored/stressedโ€”letโ€™s go out to have some drinks.โ€

That was a time when I thought of alcohol as the go-to answer to make any occasion special. But here comes the ironyโ€”as a decade-long daily drinker, there was actually nothing special about having some drinks. Drinking was my everyday routine.

The bar may be different, and occasionally, I may throw in a dinner date. But the drills were the sameโ€”drink, more drinks, then fuzzy memory and conversations I canโ€™t remember. On a really โ€œspecialโ€ day, there might be some vomit next to the sidewalk.

How did we learn to link drinking with the words โ€œspecial,โ€ โ€œfun,โ€ and โ€œcelebrationโ€? Three years into sobriety, I canโ€™t help but feel baffled.

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The Power of Glamorization: How Media Shape Our Drinking Decisions

To understand this, perhaps we need to look into the sociological factors that have ingrained alcohol into various aspects of our culture.

In a world where every other Instagram post seems to be a toast to something and beer commercials link their products with the promise of friendship and fun, the glamorization of alcohol is hard to ignore.

Whether itโ€™s the refined image of a successful person sipping expensive whiskey or the promise of endless laughter and bonding over a round of beers, media and advertising have a powerful influence on how we perceive alcohol. Itโ€™s almost as if drinking has been packaged as an integral part of the โ€œgood life.โ€

Studies have shown that this glamorization isnโ€™t just surface-level. In fact, it permeates the media we consume on a daily basis. So, if weโ€™re wondering why weโ€™re so conditioned to associate alcohol with every occasion, we should consider how often weโ€™re bombarded with this message in the media.

Recent studies have shown that a majority of TV shows popular among teens include alcohol use or references. Whatโ€™s more, drinking is often portrayed as a fun, glamorous activity without showing the potential negative consequences.

These media portrayals can subconsciously shape our views, making us more likely to think of alcohol as the go-to for celebrations, stress relief, or just about any emotion in between.

As if we have only been presented with the โ€œhappily ever afterโ€ version of the alcohol tale, these images misled many into believing that life would be somehow incomplete or less exciting without alcohol.

These glamorized versions of drinking often mask the routine nature of alcohol consumption, making each drinking occasion feel โ€œspecial,โ€ when in reality, it was becoming a habitual part of many lives.

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The Colors of Sobriety: Discovering Vibrance Without Alcohol

Is that true though? Will celebrations really lose their spark without the buzz, or will food become flavorless without a glass of wine to wash it down?

Years into sobriety, Iโ€™ve learned that the colorless life I once pictured could not be further from reality. The world didnโ€™t lose its color; rather, it became more vibrant. For me, the habitual, mindless sipping gave way to a profound presence in each moment, with every sip of life savored.

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Meaningful conversations now replace fuzzy memory. I traded throwing up by the sidewalk with actual adventures into the woods and exchanged next-day hangovers with morning jogs at the crack of dawn.

I argue that it takes courage to rebel against the drinking culture. Today, I invite you to ponder with me: How exactly does booze make our special day special?

Ready to drink less without living less, visit my website and grab your free 7-Day Sober Curiosity Toolkit. Check out Jeanette Huโ€™s blog for more such informative articles.


Written By Jeanette Hu
Originally Appeared On Psychology Today
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