10.The Burning Oil Well
Your flow of fuel just cannot be shut off. Red Adair would never be able to snuff out the flames and cap the oil well. You are angry, seething, furious at the way you have been treated and you hate us. You absolutely hate us. Each time we reach out to you, you seize the opportunity to vent your anger at us, insulting us, labeling us and going on like some crazed harpy. You think it will upset us but you don’t understand the nature of the fuel and whilst we may argue back it is all done to keep this blazing fuel flowing.
Are you or do you know any of your friends playing any of these ten roles? Then you are providing that fuel for narcissists to return to former victims.
You can read more about the triggers for hoovers and the circumstances in which they may happen and the reasons for that on my blog which has a wealth of information about how we behave and think. Knowing the Narcissist
Written by: HG Tudor
Originally appeared on: Quora