When you cheat on someone, you don’t make them doubt you, you make them doubt love. AND you make them doubt themselves.
People will start to doubt their appearance, they will start to doubt their bodies, people will start to compare themselves to others. People will start to compare themselves to who they were when they met you.
Your infidelity can spark so much insecurity in someone, that they start to question their whole personality.
The person will most likely think it’s their own fault even if they had nothing to do with it.
And if you’ve ever been cheated on, recognize that someone cheating on you, is more a reflection on them than it is on you.
It’s crazy that someone has all these flaws and makes all these mistakes, but we end up taking all the blame ourselves.
If someone chooses to break your trust, that’s not your fault.
Don’t doubt yourself, because someone couldn’t control themselves.
Don’t doubt yourself, because someone lied to you.
And remember, don’t blame yourself for someone else’s mistake.
– Jay Shetty