Getting clear about the kind of relationship that we want and the kind of person that we want to share it with are undoubtedly important steps in the realization of our dreams. But the most important aspect of creating an optimal relationship has less to do with finding the person of our dreams than with being the person of our dreams. It’s about who we become in the process.
When we identify the qualities that we seek to strengthen within ourselves, the likelihood of attracting the right person increases exponentially.
Being a great lover has less to do with technique than with our quality of being.
As we cultivate qualities like presence, generosity, compassion, commitment, and trustworthiness, and integrate practices that embody those qualities into our lives, the quality of our relationships will naturally, effortlessly become enhanced.
“The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.” — Morrie Schwartz
There is truly no limit to what is possible when two people are partnered in an agreement to support each other in the quest to discover all that is possible on this journey. Yes, it does take effort, time, and energy, but as anyone who has stayed on the path for a while will tell you, the result is worth every ounce of energy that it takes to do the work, and more. More, even, than you can imagine.
Love makes the world go round, and if you have love in your life, you will be one of the happiest people on earth. Do you know what is even better than love? Loving yourself and your partner the right way. If your relationship is based on values, trust, and respect, it will go a long way in the future.
So, what are you waiting for?
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