4. True love doesn’t come easy in life.
Everyone wants true love in their lives, but how many are actually willing to wait for it? Books and movies romanticize love so much, that most people end up having the wrong idea about love. Love doesn’t happen in an instant, nor does it happen when you want it to happen; love will come into your life when the time is right, not before that or after that.
If you have been on the other side of ghosting, don’t think that love has turned its back on you; don’t let a cowardly person’s actions shake your faith in love. Real love takes time to knock on your door, and no matter how much you may try to rush it, it’s just not going to happen. And most importantly, don’t compare your love life with those who have found love faster, because everybody’s story is different and different doesn’t always mean bad.
5. Everyone has been on the other side of ghosting at some point.
Believe it or not, everyone has been the victim of ghosting at some point in their lives; that’s one of the unfortunate side-effects of modern dating. Everyone at some point has had their hearts broken by someone who did not have the guts to tell them the truth. And you know what? That’s okay. It might not feel okay, but it is. Ghosting is not just limited to a few, specific people, it can happen to anyone and everyone.
So, don’t think that there’s something wrong with you and that’s why you were ghosted, or that you will die alone because you won’t. You will find the one for you, it might just take a bit more time, but you surely will.
6. Feeling heartbroken is part of the process.
If you’re feeling sad, upset, or heartbroken, know that it’s okay to feel like this. Feel all your emotions and don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be okay. You might not have known them for a very long time, but being ghosted is a difficult thing to experience. Don’t try to bottle up your feelings, or minimize your pain, because that’s just going to make everything worse.
Face your feelings and face your heartbreak head-on; only then will you be able to heal and move on. When someone abandons you without any explanation, it’s natural to feel hurt and angry. So feel what you have to feel, as this is the only way you will be able to overcome it.
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7. You WILL find someone who won’t ever leave your side.
Getting ghosted over and over again can be disheartening, but once you find the person you’ve been looking for, be rest assured that they are never going to leave. If someone is ghosting you, know that they are not the right one for you and that’s why they left. But when you find ‘The One’, they will never leave your side and hurt you like that. Ghosting can make you feel disillusioned with love, but don’t let a few crappy people destroy your faith in it.
Not every person out there is a bad person, and some actually mean it when they promise never to leave your side. So, have faith in yourself and in the Universe that you will indeed find the right person for you, and when you actually do, all of this pain, hurt and disappointment will just feel like a bad dream.
Being on the other side of ghosting is a horrible place to be, but sometimes what you experience in life is not always in your hands. The journey of finding true love can be a rocky one, but always remember that all of that pain and heartbreak doesn’t last forever. Once you find the right person, everything will seem alright again.