16 Things Women Want From the Man in Their Lives

Things Women Want From Man

5. Women want you to open up

Have you tried to be in a relationship with a woman who is closed off? It sucks. This is exactly what women feel when they date a man who loves to be in a power position and hides his vulnerable side from them. When you are willing to open up and show your emotional and vulnerable side to her, she will see you as a person who is comfortable with himself. This, in turn, will make her feel comfortable around you. Moreover, as you open your heart, she will feel more connected to you and will be able to open up herself.

6. Women want you to be attractive

You don’t have to Ryan Reynolds or Ryan Gosling to make them find you attractive. But make no mistake, women want to be with a man who they find attractive and desirable. It may sound shallow and superficial, but let’s face it…no one wants to date an unattractive person. And no, it doesn’t have anything to do with your looks. Women are attracted to men who take care of themselves and make sure they dress to impress. You don’t need to dress like a celebrity. Just make sure your hygiene game is on point, you have your own unique style and you put some effort into your physical health.

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7. Women want you to be stable

Stability is crucial for women when it comes to men and relationships. Emotional stability is as important and economic stability. It may sound crass, but that’s how it is. What women want is a man who can financially support himself and has enough control over his own emotions and thoughts. They also want you to be stable in the relationship. This means you need to be reliable, supportive and predictable enough so that she can lean on you when things get rough.

8. Women want you to be emotionally present

When you talk to her, listen and pay attention to her. Look at her and focus on what she is saying. This is what women want from men. Instead of checking your Instagram every 2 minutes or checking out other girls nearby, be emotionally present when you are with her. Be attentive and responsive to her. That means when she calls or texts you, respond to them promptly or at least let her know that you are busy right now.

9. Women want you to be protective

Making women feel safe around you is mandatory. This is an unwritten rule that all men must follow. If she feels wary or defensive when she is with you, then there is no scope for any attraction to develop. So make sure you don’t act like a creep when you are around women. It is only when she feels safe, she will drop her defences and let you into her life. When she feels protected, she will get comfortable with you.

10. Women want you to be passionate

If you like her, make sure you show it to her. Do not play mind games or play it cool when you’ve found the woman you want to be with for the rest of your life. Any woman wants her man to show her how passionately and strongly he loves her. So make sure you show her how you feel about her through small daily acts and some grand gestures as well.

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11. Women want you to be an accepting person

If you try to change your woman, then you are not man enough for her. Women want to be with men who do not judge them or try to better them constantly. Of course, its okay to tell her when she does something wrong, but you cannot assess or try to improve her. By judging her, you’re telling her that she is not good enough and she needs to upgrade to be with you. What she wants you to do is accept her the way she is and support her in being the best she can be, but only if and when she wants to.

12. Women want you to be sociable

Okay introverts, calm down. You don’t need to have a giant circle of friends or a big social group to hang out with to attract women. What women want is a man who they can introduce to their friends. When you are a passionate person who invests in his interests and hobbies, you will automatically become interesting to her and her group of BFFs. Show some willingness to hang out with her friends, talk with them using your natural charm, don’t try too hard to be liked by her friends and just be friendly. She will notice the efforts you take to meet her friends and will respect you for that.

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