3 Ways To Escape An Unhappy Marriage Without Getting a Divorce

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And when you and your spouse can work together to resolve the issues that became prominent while you were struggling with something outside of the marriage, you will have escaped your unhappy union.

 

2. It truly is your relationship with your spouse that’s making you unhappy.

The truth here is that it takes two people to make a relationship work and two people who participate in it not working. So, it’s time for you to get serious about how you’re contributing to your unhappiness.

Some of the ways you might be adding to your relationship woes include ignoring issues instead of addressing them when they occur, choosing not to talk with your spouse because it’s “not worth the effort”, not respecting your spouse, or your spouse doesn’t satisfy your needs because you don’t tell him/her what they are.

It’s only when you get serious about being the best spouse you know how to be that you’ll know whether your marriage can make it. And being the best spouse doesn’t mean you become an automaton or Stepford wife. It means that you bring your best you to your relationship.




By being the best you, you just may find that your spouse responds in kind and that your marriage ceases being a source of unhappiness.

 

3. You’ve done everything possible, things just aren’t working, and you’re still feeling wretched.

Doing your best to resolve things before choosing divorce as your path to freedom from your unhappy marriage is important. The effort wasn’t wasted.

By giving your all to attempt to resolve things (or discovering that you’re unwilling to give your all), you’ll gain the clarity to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that divorce is the best decision for you and your family.

The other benefit of this clarity it that you will be able to more easily proceed with divorce from a standpoint of respect and compassion for yourself and your spouse. This doesn’t mean that divorce will be easy for you. However, it does mean that you’ll be more able to handle what happens as a result of ending your marriage.

 

Escaping an unhappy marriage isn’t a quick and easy thing. However, by understanding the true nature of your unhappiness first, you can make the best decision about how to finally find the freedom and happiness you crave and deserve.

Looking for more information about how to escape an unhappy marriage? You’ll find what you’re looking for in Unhappy Marriage.




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Written by Dr. Karen Finn
Originally appeared on Dr. Karenfinn.com

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3 Ways To Escape An Unhappy Marriage Without Getting a Divorce