Share Your Weakness Is To Make Yourself Vulnerable

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   Elle Aime

   August 1, 2015

   They HATE you? That's a strong word. If you cherish yourself, that is a purpose-driven, loving, life-giving person. If you are pompous, thoughtless, callous, and love yourself in a self-absorbed, self-centered way—-yes, it will repel people. Ha. I doubt you are. In my personal experince—I have been told the opposite. That when I am vulnerable, it is not attractive. It makes them shy away. That when I am confident and have it all together I am stronger, therefore more appealing, and "love-able". It truly depends on the type of relationship, temperamental match, security of the other, and sincerity of the one being loved. Sometimes people misjudge what appears "self-important" (either due to a superiority complex of their own, jealousy, or just not knowing the person's true inner self , efforts or hidden pain).

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      Elle Aime

      August 1, 2015

      I want to add to that: There are some people in my life who LOVE when I am vulnerable.

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