9 Traits That Parents of Successful Kids Have In Common

 June 22, 2019

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traits Parents of Successful Kids Have In Common



4) They belong to a higher socio economic status

According to Sean Reardon, an American researcher from Standard University, “the achievement gap between high and low income families has been getting wider”, “roughly 30 % to 40% larger among children born in 2001 than among those born 25 years earlier.”

It is an unavoidable fact that kids from lower income families often struggle to obtain higher education as their parents are mostly struggling to make their ends meet and don’t have enough funds to invest in their kids education.

As also stated by Dan Pink, in his, motivational best seller “Drive”, “Absent comprehensive and expensive interventions, socioeconomic status is what drives much of educational attainment and performance.”

 

 5) They have higher education levels

According to a study conducted by Green State University in 2009, parents who completed higher education or college were more likely to have children who followed their path.

Dr. Eric Dubow, lead researcher from the study found out that the parent’s education level when the kid is 8 years old is an important indicator of kid’s educational and occupational success for the child, 40 years later.




 

6) They teach their kids Maths early on in life

According to a study conducted by Northwestern University in 2007, of around 35000 kids across U.S., Canada and England, development of math skills early in life can be a huge determinant of kid’s success in future.

The paramount importance of early math skills — of beginning school with a knowledge of numbers, number order, and other rudimentary math concepts — is one of the puzzles coming out of the study, said author Greg Duncan, “Mastery of early math skills predicts not only future math achievement, it also predicts future reading achievement.

Therefore, it is crucial to ensure that the kid gets the needed education in Maths especially in the early stages of development.

 

7) They offer sensitive care & genuine love

When a kid is born, they have no individual sense of identity. Their identity is totally enmeshed with their primary caregivers. It is around 2 to 3 years of age, that a kid starts developing ego or individual sense of identity.

The quality of the love & care that a kid gets at this time plays a crucial role in determining the self esteem and self worth of a child that he will carry along throughout his life.

A child, who gets consistent love and care from his parents during the developmental stage, grows up with a solid sense of self, free from the fear of abandonment, believing that this world is a safe space and he/she can get what he/she wants.

Loved children also enter adulthood with a deep internal sense of security, free from the fear of abandonment.  With this internal sense of the consistent safety of the world, such a child is free to delay gratification of one kind or another, secure in the knowledge that the opportunity for gratification, like home and parents, is always there, available when needed.– M.Scott Peck, Road Less Travelled




 

8) They spend quality time with their kids

It is about the quality of time that parents spend with their kids and not the quantity of time.

Emotions and energies are contagious. If kids grow up in a home environment which has negative energy and are exposed to constant conflicts and anger outbursts, it can have a very negative effect on the kid’s mental makeup and psyche.

Negative home environment can cause the kids to be stressed out as well, explains sociologist Kei Nomaguchi.




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