It is easy for a woman to fall in love with the wrong guy. And they gave too much to the wrong guy because he will tell you pretty things that will draw you in like a fly to honey. Such guys will envelop you with sugary sweet but fake compliments and each word they speak will be driven by some ulterior motive that is detrimental for you.
They want someone to be at their beck and call so they’ll do everything they can to make you fall for them. They’ll force you to believe that they are head over heels in love with you, but truth be told, they are just looking to make you give them everything they want. They do not care about you. But they do care about what they can take from you.
They’ll never make a commitment to you. Men like this will never provide you with the comfort and stability that we all look for when we enter into a relationship.
They can’t and they won’t give you the feeling of peace that you are searching for. They’ll just make you feel stressed. Every day you are together will only make you feel more and more insecure.
They’ll do all the things they know will trigger your anxiety. They will thrive on the raw pain that is radiating from you and the weaker you become, the stronger they will get.
It’s not easy to be the person that you are.
It will seem like you don’t get anything out of being good to others. But stay strong and persevere. When all this is over and done with, you will emerge a winner. Those who hurt you and are quick to cut you off are the ones who will end up losing more than they realize.
There will come a time when you will meet a person who will be the ultimate reward. They will eclipse all these terrible men who have hurt you so much. You will learn what love truly means and you finally get all the wonderful things that the universe has kept in store for you.
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You may not be perfect but you are kind and compassionate and you’ve done the best that you can to make the people around you grow into the best versions of their selves.
It will be easy to become hard and close off after experiencing all of this but to find true love, you can’t let these men change the wonderful person that you are.
Don’t blame yourself for their behaviour. Keep telling yourself that you are beautiful because that is the plain and simple truth. Don’t let them destroy everything you have worked hard to build. Never let them diminish the love that you keep for yourself.
Remember that you are wonderful and sure enough, when you least expect it, you will get the love that you deserve.