As a result, dating in the modern world can be nothing less than torturous for us. If you decide to become a nice guy and be compliant, then you may be able to get into a relationship. However, as women are biologically and socially wired in a particular way they find compliant partners unattractive in the same relationship. Hence, this leads to increased arguments and fights in relationships, loss of physical intimacy, infidelity and getting disrespected by the women. No man wants that in a relationship.
On the other hand, if you have a bad boy attitude, you will be deemed biologically attractive. You will have a lot of success with women, you will be able to go on dates with different women and have more than enough sexual partners. However, you will also be perceived as players, jerks, creeps and even sexist by most women. You will be considered unfit for a meaningful relationship and will not be seen as husband material. Most likely you will never experience true love nor will you be respected by women.
How to get girls to like you
So how can you get a beautiful woman attracted to you and stay loyal and respectful? Well, here are a few simple ways to become more attractive to women instantly:
As I said earlier, confidence can be a game-changer in dating. Women love confident men. Period. They don’t find needy, awkward, desperate and insecure men attractive. Regardless of what they tell you, you will have no chance with a woman by being unconfident. They might still keep you around to boost their ego, but it is highly likely you will be never be a romantic or sexual partner. So be confident. Talk to them openly and honestly. Show them that you value yourself and respect her. It doesn’t have to be that hard. Simply stop doubting yourself and believe that you deserve to be with her. If nothing else works, fake it will you make it. But be confident.
2. Develop an abundance mindset
Getting rejected or breaking up can be devastating. I get it. I have been through these myself and I know how it feels. But you need to understand there are many other women available out there who are just as amazing as the girl you thought was The One. Irrespective of how she behaves with you, never chase her. Let her know that you are interested. Show her that you like her. But don’t go out of your way to pursue her. Stand your ground and let her come to you. If it’s meant to be, it will be. If not, you never know who you may meet next. She just might be the one you were looking for.
3. Know the basics of attraction
It’s not easy to get women to like you, unless you have natural magnetic charm. However, you can learn to be more attractive just like a skill. Learn attractive body languages, be hygienic, have good manners, dress smart, talk honestly and smoothly and be reliable. This will help you make a good first impression and make her like you more.
4. Love yourself first
If you want women to love you, then you have to start by loving yourself first. How can you expect anyone to love you if you don’t love yourself? Get rid of all self doubt and self pity. Focus on building your own life by having a successful career, developing a healthy body and pursuing your passions and interests. Not only you will be happier in life, women will also find you more interesting and would want to know you better.
10 first date tips to make your date great
First dates can be boring and awkward. But it can also be exciting and brimming with chemistry. Yes, dating can be complicated and torturous for men. You have to worry about chemistry, having fun, being attractive, going to a place she will like, dressing up good, walking the walk and talking the talk. But too much pressure can certainly screw things up. Not only do you have to worry about how you are going to behave and what you’re going to say, but you also need to attract her enough to go on a second date.