Take a step back and really try and improve the relationship you have with yourself. Once you do that, you won’t look back and think your ex-was that great. You compare everyone to that person but the truth is if they were that great they wouldn’t have ended the relationship.
And because you got hurt you don’t let others in. You close off a piece of yourself out of fear. But the only way to experience love like that again is to be brave enough to take that chance.
Related: What it Means to Love a Libra
8. Scorpio (October 23rd to November 22nd)
1. You don’t give people a fair chance.
2. You don’t have realistic standards for a partner.
3. You struggle with forgiving your past.
Scorpios tend to be very judgmental both of themselves and others.
Having high standards and really high expectations leads you to much success because you put a lot of pressure on yourself to be the best. But those standards are hard to live up to and even harder for someone else to. The greatest struggle a Scorpio has is not looking at the negative parts of someone and judging them based on that rather than giving them a fair chance. As well as holding grudges.
You fight with a Scorpio next thing you know they are putting you in your place, and you don’t even know what to say but that need to want to always be right will ruin a lot of relationships. And the fact you don’t give people more than one chance will lead to you getting really good people to go.
9. Sagittarius (November 23rd to December 21st)
1. You love very hard.
2. But you’re stubborn.
3. Sometimes you are clingy.
Sags tend to love people with everything they have in them.
You get hurt a lot which is why you are so guarded. The thing about a Sagittarius is it takes them a while to get over someone and they allow themselves time to be alone and feel the pain. You close yourself off and swear off love even though you are one of the signs that need it most. You tend to really test people and put up obstacles out of fear of getting hurt again.
But once you are ready to love, you do have very stable relationships. It’s just those relationships become the center of your life which is why it hurts so much when they end. So be careful.
10. Capricorn (December 22nd to January 20th)
1. You have a knack for choosing the wrong people.
2. And always seeing the best in them.
3. But when something goes wrong you don’t walk away.
A Capricorn is someone with a good heart who likes to see the best in people even when someone shows them the opposite.
Whether it’s a lack of confidence or just a need for a partner, you tend to get in the habit of choosing the wrong people. And even though your friends and family want what’s best for you, sometimes they wonder if you do too. Be wary about who you let into your life and in your heart because falling in love with the wrong people is easy to do.
11. Aquarius (January 21st to February 18th)
1. You reject and repress deep emotions.
2. No one realizes how sensitive you are.
3. You need something consistent.
An Aquarius struggles in trying to be something they are not.