7 Things Narcissists Do That Will Leave You Drained

Things Narcissists Do Leave You Drained

The moment you enter their bad book, they are determined to take revenge. All that care and love turns into inexhaustible obsession because now you are just a  permanent enemy.

It’s astonishing to see how their love turns to poison and the length of the time they can hold grudges. Their energy and time invested in planning a campaign to exact revenge is absolutely dumbfounding to non-narcissistic people.

6. They enjoy projection

Narcissists are found to be the most actively and severely projecting people encountered. Hardly accept what they are doing but accuse you and criticize you for doing what “THEY” are doing. Projection.

If they lie, they call you a liar, they abuse you and call you an abuser, they cheat on you and call you sneaky. And, when you are hurt, it is all your fault for being so hurtful. 

Related: Signs You’re Arguing With A Psychopath.

You will be perplexed, not knowing what to say as they are projecting psychologically. All you can do is sit and cry and then the narcissist will criticize you for being freakishly oversensitive. Though you muster up the courage to speak up or give feedback, a narcissist will say — you don’t know what you’re talking about.

7.  Smear People who oppose them. 

You will find that narcissists are allergic to terms “healthy boundaries”, “fairness”, and “honesty”. Despite their bad behavior or insensitive activities, you aren’t supposed to restrict or condemn them.  Else, they will target and torture you on the name of social, professional, or personal obliteration.

Related: The Toxic Attraction Between An Empath And A Narcissist

With the help of their stage face, they get closer to you and recognize your “weak spots”. Once, they are in danger, your areas of weakness will be their prime targets. If you have ever shared any embarrassing moments with them or have felt guilty of a specific behavior or told what scares you most, then narcissists will use them against you. Remember, that your insecurities are their strength. 

They can control you only when they smash your confidence and your influence on them so that you no longer get in their way.  

Could you relate to these things that narcissists do? Leave your thoughts in comments.


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Ana Waller

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