9 Things All Happy People Know About Being Genuinely Happy

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Happy people aren’t reckless with their lives, but they don’t let fear stop them from living.

When Eleanor Roosevelt wisely counseled that we should all do something every day that frightens us, she knew something about happiness. Turns out that leaning into the sources of our stress and fear unleashes creativity, increases productivity, and prepares us to handle change and adversity.


6. Happy people cherish and nurture their relationships. 

We’ve all heard the adage that, if you finish this life with a handful of good friends, you have been blessed. Genuinely happy people know this in spades, and they are mindful to take good care of those relationships. They lead with kindness and compassion, no matter what the relationship.

They understand that you get out of relationships what you put into them. And they know there is no price you can place on the treasure of a good friend or beloved family member.

Related: Which Face Appears To Be Happier: Personality Mind Test

7. Happy people forgive. 

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Happiness is a light, elevating emotion. It can’t lift you if your life is weighed down by grudges and the daily ruminating of past hurts.

Happy people, as part of choosing happiness, choose forgiveness as a conduit to being liberated from negativity.

8. Happy people laugh. 

Laughter is such good medicine – physically, emotionally, socially – that happy people won’t live without it. They know how to laugh at themselves and the ironies of life without laughing at the expense of others.

Because they don’t take themselves too seriously, they’re able to let go and experience the lightness and sparkling brightness of laughter. 

Related: How Happy and Healthy Is Your Relationship? Quiz

9. Happy people keep their childlike wonder. 

Having a sense of awe is an expression of humility – a sense of being small in a huge, wondrous world. 

Happy people hold onto that capacity to be awed. They know it connects them to the world and to all forms of life that inhabit it. It makes life more enjoyable and less stressful, and it increases cognition while decreasing materialism.

And that is totally awesome!

Perhaps no one summed up the secret to happiness better than  Abraham Lincoln:  Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.

Written by: Dr Karen Finn
Originally appeared on drkarenfinn.com and is republished here with permission. 
Dr Karen Finn is a divorce life coach. She helps her clients navigate the challenges of divorce – from the moment it enters their mind as a possible solution for the discontent they feel in their marriage (it’s not always the best answer), through the turmoil of divorce to creating a fulfilling life post-divorce. To learn more about Karen and how you can work with her, visit her website.  
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