There’s So Much More To Life

There’s so much more to life than finding someone

“There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise.”

— Emery Allen

15 thoughts on “There’s So Much More To Life”

  1. I promise and trust me m doing the same what you mentioned I love such work I enjoy the way I live and thanks to you for reminding me again.God bless you with good health and good Karma.

  2. Most of myposts do empower the self more than others. I have this thought, which says- if we love ourselves, respect ourselves and do things that are best for us – it leads to self satisfaction. A feeling of being Complete. Whatever be our needs. We are taking care of them. Now after that, when we communicate with the outer world. We are givers and not seekers. And when all we do is add to things, to other humans… Is there not a win win situation?
    Think about it

  3. If everyone loved and took care of themselves in a loving and non-greedy and non-dysfunctional way, it would be unselfish.

    No one would be taking drugs, be alcoholics, abusers, and not be shopaholics who hoard things and pollute the earth.etc. We would need few volunteers.

    We would be healthy and ready and good to love others.

  4. Your all posts emphasize on ĺove and respect self then love others. Is it that easy for anyone to love self than the others. Isn't it the way that led us towards Narcissism

  5. Dear person reading this,
    I hope your day has been going well, if not, I hope it gets better You are an amazing person who will inspire others to do great things so keep up the hard work. I know you may feel unimportant or insecure at the moment but know that you are a beautiful human being inside and out and you are important !
    Just trying to be nice on the internet, sometimes we just need such a message !
    I hope this comment helped you a bit and if not, I‘m sorry

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