The Art of Sexual Communication: How to Strike the Best First Impression

You are deeply attracted to a man but the tragedy of your life is that he doesn’t see you as a sexual being. Though you want to show him what a sexy minx you are, you don’t know how and where to start.

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The universal truth is that physical attraction plays a great role in the initial stages of a relationship. If you want to attract a man and create the best first impression, you must first attract him physically.

Though there is no definitive formula or generalized explanation for why men feel more attracted to certain women, the following tips can definitely help you if you want him to see you as a sexual being:


1) Communicate with Your Eyes

Start with making eye contact with him. Look him in the eyes and smile warmly. When gazing at him and smiling simultaneously, stay confident and steer clear of signs of tension or nervousness. Men find confident women sexy.

Maintaining eye contact doesn’t mean constantly staring at him. Learn the art of doing it right. Make it last for short periods and every once in a while looking away from him.


2) Be Mindful of Your Body Language

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Once you have made eye contact with your crush, the first thing he will notice about you is your body language. Make sure you appear relaxed and confident. You must give subtle flirty body language signs to your crush to attract his attention. For example, touch your collarbone, touch your lips with your fingers, play with your hair, or simply smile naughtily.

Research shows that positive body language is important for romance. Also, touch him gently on the shoulder or arms when talking to him to indicate that you are genuinely interested in him.


3) Speak in a Seductive Tone

With proper eye contact and the right body language, you are almost there. The next step is to heighten the attraction with your voice. Slowly whisper in his ears in a sexy silken voice like you have a secret to share with him. When doing so, make your lips accidentally touch his ears. It will make him go crazy!


4) Talk Sexy

Think of topics that will interest him. If you talk about work and family on regular days, try to pick topics that are a little more flirty or sexy. If you are talking to him for the first time, start an enticing and personal conversation after 15 – 20 minutes into the chat. Don’t jump to intimate discussions right away. Start with lighter questions like “What do you find most attractive in a woman?”

Try complimenting him for his looks. Everyone likes compliments. Don’t go overboard with the compliments though. You don’t want to scare him away.


5) Dress to Impress

Remember, your clothes play an important role in creating the first impression of you. Nobody will be attracted to a sloppily-dressed woman. Dress stylishly, but for comfort. Sexing up your outfit doesn’t mean wearing fishnets and garter belts. It means wearing what makes you feel confident and sexy. This can include plunging necklines, bare shoulders, or a bright lipstick.

After all the flirting, when he finally asks you out, make sure you are prepared for D-Day. Dressing sexy can be challenging. Choose something that makes you look stylish and sultry, and not over-the-top. A sleek lace dress, an off-shoulder top, or your favorite little black dress can be perfect options. Click here for inspiration on styling your jewelry.


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