12 Things Your Soulmate Wants You To Know Before You Meet

12 Things Your Soulmate Wants You To Know Before You Meet

Be prepared.

When you’re waiting for your soulmate to finally show up, it can feel like you’re living in limbo.

Either you’re in a dating desert or all the guys you meet are complete and total duds. “Where is he already?” is your daily mantra.

If only you knew how to find your soulmate and hurry things up!

“Stay positive!”

“Just have fun!”

“He’s just around the corner!”

All your friends and family are saying the same thing. But, it’s hard to stay positive when you just got ghosted for the umpteenth time by a guy you were already on the fence about. How in the world can you stay positive when, clearly, the universe is on a mission to keep you and your soulmate apart?

Knowing that your kindred spirit is out there and that you two will be together is the first step in getting closer to actually being together.

To help you stay positive, excited, and hopeful for your soulmate’s arrival in the meantime, there are some things he wants you to know now.


Here are 12 things your soulmate will say when you finally meet him.

1. “To me, you are perfect just as you are.”

You are worthy to be loved. You are worthy of my love. You are good enough for me. You are incredibly beautiful to me, makeup or no makeup. Filters or no filters.

I absolutely love your body. I adore your imperfections. I am the luckiest man alive because I get to spend my life with you.

2. “I want to be in a partnership with you.”

I want us to work together as a team. I want our relationship to be healthy.

I want us to feel safe to talk to each other about anything: our fears, joys, and concerns. I want us to work together to nurture our relationship. Date nights, love trips, and quality time binge watching our favorite shows are must-dos.

3. “I can’t wait to spend my life with you.”

I want to be with you. I love spending time with you.

You’re all I think about. You bring out the best in me. Life is sweeter with you in it.

4. “Do whatever it takes to let go of your past.”

Please heal yourself of any unresolved relationship issues or other issues. It could be with an ex, your parents, a friend, a traumatic situation, addiction, or anything else that you still haven’t let go of.

Let go of any old judgments, fears, expectations, or misunderstanding. Have your heart be open and free to love me completely.


5. “Do whatever it takes to love yourself, completely.”

You won’t really know how to love me if you don’t know how to love yourself. And, I want you to love from the overflow, not deplete yourself to be with me.

Our relationship will be more connected on each level: physical, sexual, mental, emotional, and spiritual.

Make sure that each of those levels is ready to receive the intimate connections that will be created between us as soulmates and twin flames. Know that you are amazing.

6. “Trust that everything happens for a reason and timing is everything.”

Though I may not be with you yet, I promise that I am on my way to you.

Be patient. Know that I am coming and that I cannot wait for us to be together. And every relationship that isn’t with me is to support you in getting ready for me.

7. “Become the best version of yourself now.”

Don’t wait until I show up because that’s the version of you that I will recognize. That’s the version of you that will attract me into your life.

Having an attitude of gratitude and being someone who is hopeful and positive will be powerful attractants to me.

8. “I want you to be completely yourself with me … warts and all!”

I want you to know that it is safe to be completely yourself with me.

Over the next 50 years (more or less) that we will be together as life partners, things about us may change.

We may put on weight or lose weight. We’ll get sick. We’ll experience things we never thought we would.

6 Zodiac Pairs That Are Kindred Spirits

6 Zodiac Pairs That Are Kindred Spirits

They understand each other like no one else does!

For many centuries, zodiac signs were used as the most rudimentary form of psychological marker for people. This is because people do indeed have some or the other basic psychological and personality trait-set that they share on the level of their zodiac sign.

It is because of this that people still find use of zodiac signs while trying to figure out if someone is a good match for them. And this has been the tradition in many other countries too, with places like India taking it to totally different levels.
But we won’t be talking about that.

It is winter, the time for snuggles and togetherness, under the big blanket of friendship. There is nothing like spending the holidays together, watching the snow fall and getting comfortable under warm winter-wear.

A great place to start gauging a person’s appropriateness as someone’s kindred spirit is their psychology, their personality. If you two share an affinity for the same kind of bonds and react to similar emotions in a similar matter, there is a better chance of you two connecting at a higher level of consciousness.

The bonds we are about to discuss later in this article are unique because people of these signs are so perfect for each other due to the similar experiences they have shared. They are just the people they are, uneven but fitting pieces for one another; meant to be each other’s kindred spirit. Two people who can fall back upon each other and always trust to understand each other, no matter what.

Kindred spirits always come through for one another, never asking any questions because they always know what exactly is going on with the other.


Following is a list of kindred spirits best suited to one another, according to their zodiac signs.

1. Cancer and Scorpio

Cancer has always been one of the most emotionally constructive signs we have always seen. They are characterized by an innate character of loyalty and an affinity towards the passionate and the long-lasting.

Scorpios make great kindred spirits for them because where the Cancer lacks, i.e, in intensity, the Scorpios complete. They are very sensitive and loving and will guard you with their lives if anything remotely undesirable approaches you.

Hence, they make great friends for the more passive and less intense Cancers, who are equally supportive.

And moreover, the only fault that Scorpios are accused of, obsession, will have no meaning when sharing a bone with a Cancer because Cancers are tenacious and extremely faithful to their partners. So, there is no need for such negative obsession.


2. Aries and Sagittarius

Aries is the conflict-lover in all relationships, more often than not creating conflict where there isn’t any so that they can come out on top. This makes them less-than-ideal friends for most other signs; their competitiveness gets the better of them almost all the time and their love always takes a back seat.

Sagittarius is always given mixed reviews. They are the most broad-minded and philosophical of all the signs, but they are extremely self-centred, almost to the point of delusion. They love to travel and have new experiences; now the first is fine but the second almost always ends up affecting something like finding a kindred spirit, something which breeds on familiarity.

This is a kind of fire + fire alliance, because everyone around a Sagittarius has to have conflict and no one but an Aries can handle so much conflict and still want to be with the person.

They simply understand each other.


3. Taurus and Capricorn

Both are really grounded and really hardworking signs. They are extremely responsible and dependable people who have much more in common than they think or even understand.

And more importantly, their general attitude towards life and success is the same. Both of these signs are extremely gig-oriented and extremely goal-driven. In that, they live one day at a time and are never far-fetched and deluded in their intentions and desires.

Capricorns are also some of the most helpful people out there and the entire affair would be very cute as they would just be helping each other achieve each other’s dreams, just like the friendships we see in movies and read about in books. Enid Blyton, anyone?


4. Libra and Gemini

If Librans are good at something, it is definitely taking decisions. And guess who isn’t? Gemini.

At the same time, Gemini can be really light in their attitude towards life. It makes them and the time a Libran spends with them a kind of welcome break from their usual routine, which is normally pretty work and justice-oriented.

One helps the other decide what food to order and the other one, in turn, helps him/her get out of the house more often to have a great time, always. They make each other comfortable that an ideal friendship should always have.

As Jake Peralta would say, “Noice!”


Related Video: This Is What Makes You Happy According To Your Zodiac Sign

The Difference Between Kindred Spirits and Soulmates

The Difference Between Kindred Spirits and Soulmates

I have spoken a lot about soul mates and twin flames before, but I have never really gone into kindred spirits.

I have read many different definitions of kindred spirits, however, this is what I believe a kindred spirit to be.

Everyone walking this planet is a kindred spirit to you. Your souls have all come to Mother Earth to help raise the collective consciousness and help the well-being of this planet.

Together, you all share a similar mission in a similar time and space dimension.

You may resonate with some spirits more than others, but everyone walking this planet is essentially a kindred spirit to you.

The Difference Between Kindred Spirits and Soulmates

Think of it this way, if everyone was moving through life with a higher frequency, we would all understand that we were connected. We would all understand that we are all energy and here to pursue a similar mission on Earth.

In many ways, this idea of a kindred spirit allows us to blur the line between one human and the next and reveals that we are all one and the same and here in this same time and space to achieve a specific mission or purpose.

So, how does this compare to a soulmate?

A soulmate is someone who is from the same soul group as you. If kindred spirits are the entire rainbow your soul group is just one specific color that goes into making the rainbow.

Think of it this way- souls come into this world attached to a big energetic “blanket”.

There are lots of blankets that come to earth, but the people who come from the same blanket as you are your soul mates.

The people who come on other blankets but into your same time, space dimension that is earth, are kindred spirits.

Essentially, everyone here on earth are all kindred spirits to each other.

It may not always feel this way however, as even though Earth and the people on it are at a particular frequency, everyone has a different level of consciousness within that frequency range.

When you are awakened and aware, you should truly be able to connect with anyone and everyone, because you appreciate the similarities, differences, and oneness between you. When you are awakened you are also able to honor everyone’s life path and know that everyone is an important piece of the rainbow.

At times it can be very difficult to feel this way when we see so much pain, hurt and anger in the world, however the idea of the kindred spirit acknowledges that we are all the same, we are all working with the same time and space dimensions and we are all enjoying the energy that is Earth.

There is no coincidence that we were all sent to Earth at the same time and that connection is what allows us to be kindred spirits.

The only exception to this is people who believe that Earth is somewhat foreign or if they feel aligned with a different galaxy.

These people are commonly referred to as Starseeds, and they have come from a different time and space dimension to help and aid earth.

This particular group of people has their own kindred spirits in their own galaxies however they often do come to earth with their own soul mates.

This doesn’t necessarily mean that Starseeds cannot connect with those on Earth, as they are usually very advanced in consciousness, however, the connection levels they experience may be different.

There are many different definitions out there about kindred spirits and soul mates, however, this is what I feel to be the most helpful way to describe them.

Written by Tanaaz Chubb
This article was originally published on Forever Conscious.

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