4. You look hot.
I know, in this day and age we don’t want to put the emphasis on looks. Smarts, emotional IQs, happiness and kindness are important parts of a woman’s makeup and things that she wants to be recognized for by her man.
That being said, every woman wants to know that her man thinks that she is hot. She wants to know that he checks her out when she walks into the room, that seeing her walk around naked is the highlight of his day and that making love to her rocks his world.
So, if you refrain from telling her girl that her physical appearance rocks your world, don’t! She needs to hear it from you and telling her will make her understand how much she means to you.
5. I am sorry I hurt you. What can I do to make it up to you?
Apologies are important in every relationship. They can make or break even a happy one but they are often done incorrectly.
What do I mean? Here is an example:
A man comes home from work late. His boss kept him there later than he thought and he missed dinner with his family. His wife is fuming. He says I am sorry BUT my boss kept me there and I figured that you would understand.
Any apology followed by a ‘but’ immediately negates it. The reality is the reason why his wife was fuming was that she was hurt that he wasn’t home and that he didn’t call to tell her. She was hurt.
One of the sweetest things to say to your girlfriend is actually something that you don’t say – but!
So, what makes up a good apology? One that you can give your woman that will make her feel like you care? I am sorry I hurt you. What can I do to make it up to you?
The most important part of an apology is acknowledging that you hurt someone. Even if you feel like what you did was unavoidable, you still hurt them. Acknowledging that and owning it will diffuse the situation right away.
And, if you give your partner the opportunity to let you know how to fix it, you can move on and get around to the fixing it part, which is way more fun!
Looking for sweet things to say to your girlfriend so she knows how you feel about her is an excellent step in forging a strong relationship.
The 5 Love Languages (if you don’t know it, look it up) posits that we all feel the love in certain ways: quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, gift-giving and doing tasks. And I do believe this idea to be true.
That being said, women need to hear it from you. They need to have the words come out of your mouth and soak into their heart and their brain.
And don’t forget the most important one: I love you. I know that you might think that she knows that one but she still likes to hear it. Every day.
So, go forth. Use your words. Let your girlfriend know that she is the one for you!
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