What Strong Women Often Get Wrong About Finding Love: 4 Things To Know

What Strong Women Often Get Wrong About Finding Love

1. Finding a ‘MAN’ can be really hard

When you are a strong woman, it can be really challenging to meet a man who meets your standards. As you have a fulfilling and meaningful life yourself, you have a long wish list of qualities and traits you want in your man. However, most guys lack the confidence, courage, and strength to take the pressure and show you the love you truly deserve.

Read: 7 Powerful Warrior Traits A Strong Woman Looks For In A Man

2. You can be intimidating to men

Most men don’t know how to deal with women who are strong and independent, especially if you are more successful than them. Their inferiority complex holds them back from approaching you and even if they did, it would lead to a disastrous relationship. With very few men out there who are as mentally strong and independent as you are, you will find dating a stressful experience. 

3. You can appear emotionless

Being a confident, self-reliant, and self-loving person, you don’t feel needy or desperate for a boyfriend or a relationship. And so you’re not comfortable with a guy who is too clingy or needy.

Being independent, you have your own dreams and passions to follow and you want your man to pursue his own interests as well. Someone who will challenge you to grow yet loves and support you at the same time. To the wrong guy, this kind of behavior can make you look cold and heartless as he thinks you don’t value him enough.

4. You want him to love you, but you want to be alone too

Independent women love their alone time. You enjoy your own company and you are comfortable with being just by yourself, unwinding and reflecting after a hard day of work. But you also crave company and the warmth that the unconditional love of a man can offer you. And this can make you more confused than you need to be.

But does it mean that you can’t get a boyfriend? Does it mean you can’t attract men as you scare them away? No. You can definitely attract men with your confidence and charisma. The question is can you attract the men you want to attract? Can you attract the right men?

This is why strong women can’t attract the right men.

Smart, successful, independent and strong women are usually comfortable with their masculine energy, sometimes even more than the feminine energy that makes them loving and receptive. And this is why she finds it hard to build a meaningful, loving, and lasting relationship.

However, this masculine energy does not help her in attracting a loving, caring soulmate. But that doesn’t mean she can’t attract men. The problem is she ends up attracting all the wrong men. 

Attracting men is easy for independent women. The kind of man who relies on his woman to provide for him and do all the hard work. Weak and submissive men who don’t respect themselves and in turn are unable to respect her. As long as you want to take the lead in a relationship, you will only attract men who are willing to be your followers. Men who are comfortable with their feminine energy, sometimes even more than the masculine energy that makes them protective, loving, and provide for you. 

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Theo Harrison

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