What Strong Women Must Know About Loving An Alpha Male

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What Strong Women Know Loving An Alpha Male

Are you an alpha woman, loving an alpha male? They’re tough — but SO worth it. Here’s what you need to know before dating them.

Can two alphas in a relationship make things work?

Well, when an Alpha man meets an Alpha woman the initial attraction is spellbinding. They can’t get enough of each other.

Alpha males love Alpha females — in fact, they’re each other’s only true life partners. Mentally they are in line with each other. Emotionally … check. Physically … off the charts!

Related: 30 Alpha Male Traits That Makes You A Real Alpha

Yet even with all this going for them, Alpha males typically do NOT marry Alpha females.

Do you want to know if you are an alpha male or not? Check out socio sexual hierarchy, a personality categorization system that classifies men as per their social position among other men.

Here are 3 reasons Alpha men get in their own way on the path to life-long, type-A love:

Loving An Alpha Male: 3 Important Things Alpha Women Must Know

1. Alphas want to lead.

The biggest challenge Alpha/Alpha relationships face is deciding who is going to lead. For an Alpha guy, there can be only one answer to this question — and the answer is him.
If you want to argue about who makes better decisions, you’ll find yourself in a losing argument. Alpha men simply will not follow your lead, period.

Alpha women tell me all the time “James, I’m OK with that. I want a strong man.” They mean it when they say it — until they butt heads and he wants to tell her what the “right” thing is to do. Then, suddenly, we have a problem …

Related: Seeking Help! Unable To Love sexist Men As Society Turned Me Into An Alpha Woman

2. He loves you, but he will never love you more than he loves himself.

Other men may put you on a lofty pedestal high above themselves. Alpha men will love you, but never more than they love themselves.

What Strong Women Must Know About Loving An Alpha Male

If you try to outscore them mentally, physically, or emotionally, you’ll find a man who doesn’t want to play along. An Alpha man is individualized and actualized — just like you are.

There will be no games played.

Related: 5 Common Misconceptions About The Alpha Female

3. It’s nature’s way.

In nature, when two Alphas meet they fight for dominance. In a relationship between an Alpha man and an Alpha woman, the most common fighting ground is mental.

Alphas of all genders are extremely intelligent, which means that Alpha guys have the same exact problem you do. They know what they want and they are willing to do anything to get it.

Mental arguments get exhausting for everyone. Alpha men often choose a less complex woman simply so they can focus on what they’re doing in the world without competing to outwit or out-achieve their own partner.

Related: 4 Alpha Traits In A Woman That Makes A Strong Man Fall Deeply In Love With Her

Can Alpha men and Alpha women be together?

Absolutely.

Do Alpha men typically choose Alpha women for the long-term? No.

As I said in the beginning, there’s only one small problem: Who’s going to lead? If you can figure out how to navigate this one question within your relationship, your Alpha man will remain mesmerized by you for a lifetime.​

Watch this video to know more about dating, love and relationships:

Being In A Relationship With An Alpha Man: 3 Things About Loving An Alpha Man

What’s your stake on loving an alpha man? Leave a comment below.


Originally appeared on Your Tango
Written by James Allen Hanrahan

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