10 Secret Areas Where You Store Stress In Your Body

Secret Areas You Store Stress In Body

6. Fatigue: Resentments

Resentment stresses your entire body and does more damage to you than the people you resent. Blaming others, playing the victim, reliving the events–these are the empty calories of self-expression. Resentments keep you from living in the moment and experiencing the benefits of being present. When you focus on those who wronged you, you are giving them free real estate in your head.

Instead, try to focus on forgiveness, or at the very least, moving on. Strive for more fulfilling relationships, add a healthy dose of self-care, and you’ll feel years younger in no time.

7. Numbness: Trauma

When we’re overwhelmed by an event, we tend to numb our feelings. This is our psyche’s way to disassociate from overpowering pain or danger. Traumatic events are not always life-threatening—they can result from a brush with real or imagined danger or a history of childhood abuse or neglect.

Over time, if you don’t process the trauma, the memory of it gets lodged in your body. As a result, you deaden your feelings when vulnerable; trusting others is impossible, and true intimacy is lost. Any situation that makes you feel unsafe causes you great confusion; you freeze up or go blank.

The first step toward freeing yourself from trauma is recognizing the power it has over you and asking for help.

Related: 7 Behaviors Common Among Adults Who Went Through Trauma At A Young Age

8. Breathing Difficulties: Anxiety

Breathing difficulties, a panic attack that leaves you gasping for air, a suffocating feeling when anxious. These are the symptoms I’ve noticed in folks who are repressing great sadness. They don’t want to cry and avoid mourning heartbreaking events. Instead, they choose to repress sadness, move on, and focus on something else.

But restricting tears is a lot like holding your breath. When you finally cry, it comes gushing out; equal parts pain and relief. Freeing bottled-up sadness is like sucking in a dose of fresh oxygen. It’s refreshing and liberating!

9. Voice & Throat Problems: Oppression

Oppressed people are not allowed to have a voice. If you grew up in an oppressive atmosphere, speaking your mind or expressing your needs was dangerous. You also carry around a harsh inner critic. As a result, as an adult, you tend to withhold feelings. When you have the impulse to speak up, you resort to your childhood tendency to silence yourself and repress your voice.

This clash between the impulse to speak and the impulse to withhold causes much tension and often manifests in throat and voice problems.

In therapy, I’ve found that journal writing is a great way to expose your inner critic and start talking back to it. Also reading poetry out loud (poetry has a profound connection to the unconscious) is a way of gaining confidence in your voice. Hopefully, you will soon realize you have the right to be heard.

10. Insomnia: Loss Of Self

When you go through life-changing events–good or bad–people tend to lose sleep. You experience anxiety when your life circumstances are in flux. This can happen during times of stress or times of great personal growth. For me, sleeplessness is most often associated with the fear of the unknown.

Write down your fears or, better yet, talk them out with a close friend. Learn to work with change, rather than repress your fear of it. When you work with it, you’ll be able to hit the pillow and have sweet dreams.

Toward a More Rewarding Way of Being

Releasing bottled up feelings is fundamental to psychotherapy; it offers you respite from the psychic stress of repression. People always feel relieved when the weight of repression lifts. Soon after, they report a surge of confidence, a product of a stronger emotional core. Group therapy is also an excellent tool for building stronger and healthier relationships.

Related: 5 Of The Best Stress Relief Exercises For A Calm Mind & Body

When you take better care of your feelings, you take better care of yourself and those you love. You come to appreciate and value your relationships more. Take the time to consider how you manage your feelings and what your psychosomatic pain is trying to tell you. Not only will you feel happier and experience less stress, but many studies also show you might even live longer.


Written By Sean Grover

Originally Appeared In Sean Grover

Contrary to what most people believe, stress is not entirely limited to your brain; you tend to store stress in some parts of your body too. But it’s okay. The moment you get to know where you store stress in your body you will be able to understand clearly what you need to do, to make yourself feel better. Take care of yourself, and love yourself enough, so that stress has absolutely no place in your life.

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  1. It is so damn true we ignore ourselves so much… and it in turn has bad consequences know us.
    Thank you it was informative .

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