5. Everything is your fault.
Does your person always tell you that you are at fault? If he comes home drunk, does he blame you for driving him to drink? If she runs up the credit card, does she say it’s because you are never home? Is a dinner that was burnt because you had to do something for them your fault?
Someone who is gaslighting you is someone who will take no responsibility for the dynamic between the two of you. Everything will be your fault. Not only does that absolve them from any responsibility it will also continue to undermine your belief that you are worthless and unloveable.
Knowing what someone who is gaslighting you will say is the key to preventing, or stopping it, from happening.
If you are with someone who tells you “you are always wrong”, who tells you are friendless and worthless, who makes you doubt yourself in every way, then, most likely you are with someone who is gaslighting you.
You may or may not recognize why this is happening to you but it is important that you do not trust what this person is saying and doing and that you get away from them as soon as possible. Reach out to people who love you to help you escape from this person so that you can keep your sanity and have a happy life.
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Written By Mitzi Bockmann Originally Appeared In Let Your Dreams Begin