It is normal to not have the same passion of being physically close all the time like you used to when your relationship began. As we get more comfortable with each other, life starts to happen. That’s fine. But if you now feel differently when you touch your partner, then it’s one of the signs your relationship is over.
A loving touch can heal a lot of wounds and nurture a relationship by making us feel loved, safe and warm inside.
You can’t play a guitar without caressing the strings fondly. Can you?
3. You Feel Indifferent
Does your relationship still feel engaging? Have all disagreements completely disappeared? Does your partner’s behavior and actions matter at all? Co-existing without being engaged can be a relationship killer.
When both partners are agreeable & indifferent instead of passionately arguing about things they feel strongly about in the relationship, it’s one of the signs your relationship is over.
Fighting all the time is definitely not a sign of a happy relationship. However, simple arguments helps to develop a deeper bonding among couples. When you are not engaged or present in the relationship, it’s a clear sign that not all is well in your partnership. This is where communication comes in.
A real open honest conversation about how you both feel about this relationship at this current moment. Ask them how they are, what is bothering them, if they want to share something. Instead of jumping to conclusions, have a heart-to-heart discussion showing that you care. Listen to them and understand what they are going through.Things can change faster than you realize. Start talking.
4. You Don’t Look Deep Into Their Eyes Now
Do you still look in to their eyes with love? Do you still experience butterflies in your stomach when your eyes meet? Do you feel that connection when you make eye contact even today? If not, something is wrong my friend. If you avoid eye contact, then either one or both of you are avoiding something. Your partner may not be having an affair, but they are definitely hiding something from you. It can be anger. Frustration. Dissatisfaction. Or simply their feelings for you. No matter what it may be, if you avoid one of the main subtle signs your relationship is over, it may be too late to salvage it. Eventually you will stop looking at each other.
Eye contact is one of the most natural ways to build a connection and look into someone for who they are. It’s a doorway to understanding their true self.
You can connect to your partner’s soul if you truly look into their eyes with all the love in your heart.
When you make that connection, you will know what I mean.
5. You Start Feeling Heavy
Relationships are never easy. There are days you feel like you are the happiest person alive. And then there are days you wonder why you are even alive.
One day loving someone can feel effortless, while the very next day it can feel overwhelming.
That’s normal. But when you start feeling the heaviness coming from inside, you know it’s sign that needs your attention.
There are various factors like work pressure, bills, family and situations that can make us feel heavy. Life can be like that sometimes. But if your heaviness stems from feelings of anxiety, anger, discomfort, resentment, doubt and uncertainty, then you need to look into it. These feelings will keep getting heavier unless you address them.
6. You Feel Lonely, Even Around Them
If you feel alone, unloved and unsupported even when you are with partner, it can be the loneliest feeling ever.
Do you feel you cannot openly communicate with your partner? Are you suppressing a lot of emotions and thoughts about your relationship inside you? Then you must understand its one the signs your relationship is over. If your partner is not as concerned about your well-being as you are about them, it is simply going to make things worse down the line. A relationship is not about one partner giving their all while the other just ignores everything. It’s a mutually nurturing and loving bond that you share with your partner.